Sunday, August 12, 2007

What Are The 5 Common Mistakes That Men Make In Dating?

In this post, I am going to share with you what are some of the most common mistakes that men make during dating, that destroy their chances of getting women...

When approaching women, men will need to bear some points in mind so as not to make the same mistakes like other guys make. Here are the top 5 common mistakes men make when approaching a woman:

1. Approaching without a plan.
If you never plan, you are planning to fail. Although you can always improvise on the spot, but by having a plan, it will always increase your chances of coming across as a person she might consider dating.

2. Lie to women. When a man does not give enough respect and credit to a woman, he is going to fail. Most men think that they can fool a woman into giving them their number. Listen, women know that you are trying to pick them up, so do not beat around the bush. Be direct and let them know exactly what you want.

3. Forgetting about her comfort zone. It is important for you to realize that most women will be on their guard when you first approach them. This is normal, and therefore it is extremely important for you to come across as a harmless guy. Being a little humorous always help.

4. Acting like a pervert.
Do not just stare at her boobs when you just got to meet a woman, it will only bring across to her that you are a pervert. Instead, lock your eyes into hers while talking to her, it shows that you respect her and are interested to know her more.

5. Do not act like an irresponsible man. In reality, men are very bad to women. There is always a heavy price to pay for breaking a heart. When you are faithful to a woman, you will reap the rewards in the long run.

Hope that you do not make these common mistakes that most men make.


Tony said...

Hi Cindee,
I agree with 2, 3 and 5 but on 1, I always approach without a plan(actually the plan is just to flirt and see what she is like) does that count as a plan? I just improvise on the spot and do or say something that makes her laugh. Almost always works. then I could get her number if I wanted but I don't cause she usually wasn't hot enough. And on 4 there is a way guys can check out her attributes without her being creeped out and actually she appreciates this technique. I'm not giving it away here though. It's my secret. haha

Crid Lee said...

Hi tony,

Thanks for sharing, looks like we will need to give treat you a coffee to get your secrets though.. Haha

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