Showing posts with label dating game. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dating game. Show all posts

Thursday, December 20, 2007

4 Tips To Date A Gorgeous Woman

Many guys are lack confidence when it comes to dating gorgeous women. They think that so called "gorgeous women" are definitely harder to date when compared to other "normal" women. To me, they are all women. The same old dating rules still apply.

To successfully date a gorgeous woman, you need to have the right knowledge and techniques to know how to do it. Let me share with you 4 tips that you can use in your dating game:

1. Understand her. A gorgeous woman does not lack of suitors. She has most probably seen so many guys, that she thinks that no man seems special to her. Therefore, to increase your chance of success, you will need to take different actions to produce different results. You need to do what other guys are not doing.

2. Have self-belief. You must believe in yourself first before we talk about dating women. Even if you are short or broke, you CAN STILL attract gorgeous women. Are you with me? Having the right mindset first is very important when it comes to dating. If you do not believe in yourself that you can attract her and go to approach a woman, you have already lost half the battle even before you open your mouth to talk.

3. Know how to strike out a conversation with stranger. You must be confident to approach any woman and starts a conversation with her. If you lack courage, you are not going to attract anyone. When starting a conversation with a woman, do not ask her "Yes" or "No" question, as you are just giving her a chance to reject you. Instead of asking her question like "Do you like to do sports", try asking her "You seem to me like a very sporty woman. Why do you love sports so much?" Get it?

4. Create attraction. To successfully date a woman, you need to create attraction first. Attraction can be created by the way you speak to her, the way you carry yourself, the actions that you use while talking and the charisma in you. To make a gorgeous woman falls for you, you MUST create attraction. If you are able to speak well and make her enjoy your company, you have already won half the battle.

One thing to note is that many men feel intimidated by beautiful women. If you want to succeed in dating them, you MUST NOT feel intimidated. Take control of the situation and distinguished yourself from most other guys out there. The key is to be DIFFERENT.

You can date the most gorgeous woman not even in your wildest dream, as long as you know how to approach her and create attraction...

Sunday, November 18, 2007

5 Hot Tips On How to Be Irresistible to Women

At some point of our lives as men, we will be thinking about how we can be irresistible to women. But most of the times, we do not want to seek for the answers as our men egos emerge and kill off any chances for us to triumph in the dating game.

If you have just 5 minutes to spare, I am going to share with you 5 hot tips that you can make yourself irresistible to women:

Hot Tip #1: Hang out with beautiful chicks. Women love competition, and will see a guy with lots of women around him as an attractive man. It also shows that you are not a needy person who always needs to depend on one woman.

Hot Tip #2: Have eye contact. By looking into her eyes while you are out with her, it shows that you are a very confident man. She will also get the hint that you are interested in her and women just love it when men look into their eyes.

Hot Tip #3: Bad boy. Like it or not, the bad boy still rules. Most women will fall victims to bad boys as they feel that being around with bad boys are very exciting and believe that one day they can change them for good.

Hot Tip #4: Provide a listening ear. Women always want men to listen to them when they have problems. By just sitting down and listen to her whining instead of providing solutions to her, you are doing her a very big favor.

Hot Tip #5: Find out what are her interests. Women love to talk, therefore you must know how to get her to talk about what she is crazy about. Make her feel that the both of can really get along very well.

Wait! Before you go out there and apply the tips on the first woman that you are going to meet, find out what exactly to say to her so that you can get her to give you her phone number for sure…

Sunday, November 11, 2007

How Do You Know Whether Is It Lust or Love?

Many people are confused between lust and love. A relationship which is built solely on lust only will not last long. When choosing the right mate for your relationship, physical attraction is not the most important factor that you need to consider.

Love and lust are easily confused because they are so much alike. Couples, who are in a relationship, where they do not share common interest at all other than an overwhelming physical desire for one another, may be just lust.

If a couple does not enjoy one another company unless they are having sex, it may also be lust after all. True love does consist more than all these things.

A couple who is truly in love will not care about the activity they are having, because they simply enjoy each other company. They share common interest and have similar ethics and morals. They will find it easy to talk to one another about anything under the sun and are able to discuss any conflicts openly without losing their tempers.

Most long-term relationships are built on a strong friendship which turns into love over a period of time. Sex is not the main driving force behind a long lasting relationship, although having it just makes the whole deal sweeter.

There are a few questions that you can ask yourself, be it whether you are a man or woman, to determine whether your feeling towards the other person is actually love or just lust. Read them slowly and answer each one of them truthfully:

1. Do you share common interests, moral and ethics?

2. Do you really care for his or her safety and happiness?

3. When in a conflict, are you able to talk to the other person in a very open, calm, and frank discussion, without losing your temper?

4. Can you talk to him or her about anything under the sun? Or is it just always sweet talk and things about sex?

5. Do you enjoy each other company, regardless of the activity?

6. Are you able to accept the other person when he or she is not at his or her best physical condition or appearance?

7. Are you willing to spend time with the other person even without having sex?

8. Do you have a mutual respect for the other person?

These are just some of the questions that you can ask yourself to solve the dilemma in you. Lust and love is just separated by a very thin line. Therefore, it is important for you to be able to tell the difference in order to save you from wasting your time perusing a relationship that is destined to fail.

Sunday, August 12, 2007

What Are The 5 Common Mistakes That Men Make In Dating?

In this post, I am going to share with you what are some of the most common mistakes that men make during dating, that destroy their chances of getting women...

When approaching women, men will need to bear some points in mind so as not to make the same mistakes like other guys make. Here are the top 5 common mistakes men make when approaching a woman:

1. Approaching without a plan.
If you never plan, you are planning to fail. Although you can always improvise on the spot, but by having a plan, it will always increase your chances of coming across as a person she might consider dating.

2. Lie to women. When a man does not give enough respect and credit to a woman, he is going to fail. Most men think that they can fool a woman into giving them their number. Listen, women know that you are trying to pick them up, so do not beat around the bush. Be direct and let them know exactly what you want.

3. Forgetting about her comfort zone. It is important for you to realize that most women will be on their guard when you first approach them. This is normal, and therefore it is extremely important for you to come across as a harmless guy. Being a little humorous always help.

4. Acting like a pervert.
Do not just stare at her boobs when you just got to meet a woman, it will only bring across to her that you are a pervert. Instead, lock your eyes into hers while talking to her, it shows that you respect her and are interested to know her more.

5. Do not act like an irresponsible man. In reality, men are very bad to women. There is always a heavy price to pay for breaking a heart. When you are faithful to a woman, you will reap the rewards in the long run.

Hope that you do not make these common mistakes that most men make.

Sunday, August 5, 2007

How to Beat Other Men in The Dating Game....

Dating is a very competitive game, it is either you get the girl that you love, or some other guys get the girl. A lot of self-confidence and motivation are needed to survive in this game.

In the dating game, you will have a lot of competitors, some are tough, some are just weak. The point here is, if you want to succeed in dating, you should not allow yourself to fall into the weak category.

But in reality, it is very easy to fall into the weak category, especially for men who just broke off from their long term relationship....

When you have just ended a long term relationship, the period after that is a difficult one. Most of the guys will be wondering what will happen? Will they ever get a new special woman in their life? I think it's easy for men to become so comfortable and emotionally dependent in a relationship that they experience a lot of FEAR when ending that relationship.

Getting back to the “dating game” is not as hard as what you guys think. If you know how to go out anytime to meet women, you should not be afraid at all, because those set of skills are still deeply rooted in your brain.

When you know how to go out anytime and meet women, you will have the following benefits:

1) When you know that you can meet women anytime you want, it makes you stop acting so NEEDY and CLINGY in a relationship. Most needy and clingy behaviors are rooted in the FEAR that you will never be able to find another woman.

2) When it comes to ending a relationship, this skill makes things MUCH easier. Too many of you guys stay in relationships that are bad for you, and are afraid to END a relationship because of that deeply-rooted insecurity that comes from not knowing how to walk out the door anytime, anywhere and meet women.

When comes to dealing with competition from other guys when you are out of the "dating game" for a long time, there are actually 2 reasons to find the root of the problem.

1) INSECURITY. When you are insecure and do not trust yourself, you will always fear that someone else CAN snatch away your girlfriend/date. This is a bad thing because it then clouds your thinking, and creates an illusion that the woman you're with is BETTER than she is, and that you're WORSE than you are.

2) Jealousy. Jealousy is useless, and it can leads to stupid emotion like anger and anger may leads to violence. Women hate violence. If you resort to violence, I can bet that she will leave you immediately.

Therefore, you will need to feel confident about yourself first, so that it will not lead to jealousy.

Women are attracted to guys who are confident, and if she wants to leave, you can’t stop her anyway. And if she really leaves, just look for a new woman! Why fear?

 
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