Wednesday, October 31, 2007

4 Tips On Overcoming Shyness On Your First Date With Your Girl

If you want to stand a chance to establish a good impression in the eyes of the girl that you are dating, you will need to successfully overcome shyness on your first date.

You will not want to think that you are just a small timid boy, as this will greatly destroy any of your chance to successfully make her your girlfriend. Therefore, overcoming shyness should be your top priority before you go on your date with her.

Usually the fear that you feel when shyness hits you is usually much worse than what you will expect in the reality. Shyness is not real at all, and there is nothing that you should be afraid of. Why are you afraid to meet a girl? It is nothing near life and death...

To overcome shyness on your first date, you will need to confront your fear directly:

1. Dress up yourself. When you feel that you look good before a date, you will feel more confident about yourself. You will tend to talk more confidently and show that you are in control.

2. Choose to eliminate any negative thoughts. For once, tell yourself that you will only think of the positives. Throw all negatives thoughts, fears, and rejections out of the window. Approach your first date with absolute confidence and optimism.

3. Plan for your very first date. Before the first date, make sure that you do the necessary preparation. Find out as much as possible about what she likes, what are her hobbies, what is her lifestyle, etc. With all these information, you will be able to come out with topics to talk about during the date so as to eliminate any awkwardness of silence.

4. Give yourself more respect. You will need to love and respect yourself more. There is nothing wrong about feeling shy in dating, and it does not mean that you are inferior in anyway. Combat your fear of shyness and overcome it.

By overcoming your shyness on your first date, she will see you as a man who is confident, composed, and able to take the lead. All these elements will create the attraction that is necessary for her to fall for you.

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Sunday, October 28, 2007

5 Common Mistakes Men Make In Dating

When approaching women, men need to bear a few points in mind so as not to make the common mistakes that other guys tend to make. So let us just discuss the top 5 common mistakes men make when approaching a woman:

1. Approaching without a plan. If you never plan, you are planning to fail. Although you can always improvise on the spot, but by having a plan, it will always increase your chances of coming across as a person she might consider dating.

2. Lie to women. When a man does not give enough respect and credit to a woman, he is going to fail. Most men think that they can fool a woman into giving them their number. Listen, women know that you are trying to pick them up, so do not beat around the bush. Be direct and let them know exactly what you want.

3. Forgetting about her comfort zone. It is important for you to realize that most women will be on their guard when you first approach them. This is normal, and therefore it is extremely important for you to come across as a harmless guy. Being a little humorous always help.

4. Acting like a pervert. Do not just stare at her boobs when you just got to meet a woman, it will only bring across to her that you are a pervert. Instead, lock your eyes into hers while talking to her, it shows that you respect her and are interested to know her more.

5. Do not be an irresponsible man. In reality, men are very bad to women. There is always a heavy price to pay for breaking a heart. When you are faithful to a woman, you will reap the rewards in the long run.

Hope that you do not make these common mistakes that most men make. By bearing these 5 points in mind, you will be able to increase your likelihood of succeeding in getting women to be in relationships with you.

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Why Is Body Language So Important in Dating?

Body language does really play a very important role when you are dating women, because majority of human communication is non-verbal. Your body language reveals a lot about your personality, and what exactly you are communicating to women.

By judging a person body language, you will have a glimpse of an idea whether he or she has just broken up with their loves one, or have just gotten into a relationship that he or she wants.

Therefore when it comes to dating, men should pay a lot of attention of what they are communicating to women non-verbally, that is through their body language. Communication non-verbally can happen very subtlety, and that is why you must really know what body language consists of so that you will not give out the wrong body language signal:

1. Your face. Relax your facial muscles and never ever tense your jaw.

2. Your voice. Speak in a calm, slow and confident manner. Do not strain your voice, or try to put up some funny accent.

3. The placement of your body. Try to take up more space by spreading your legs and arms.

4. Your shoulders. Do not raise your shoulders unnecessarily as it will imply to the woman that you are a very nervous person. Keep them relax at all times.

5. Your overall body movement. Do not make it seems that you are rushing for time. Move through the world doing what you want, and assume that others will follow.

If your body language does not match what you say, you will not succeed with women. If you are excited about something that a woman says, show it with the right body language. If you show it by slumping over and folding your arms, then you will come across very fake.

With the right body language and mindset, it means you will be comfortable and enjoying yourself... with the woman, and succeed in the dating game...

Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Mistakes That Many Guys Make When Trying to Get Their Ex-Girlfriends Back...

Breakup is always hard to endure, as unhappiness, sadness and hatred will emerge and affect both parties.

Going through a relationship breakup is never an easy thing, especially if you are not the one who initials the break-up. During this period of time, you will feel very low and will tend to look for rebounds. But there are also common cases whereby you will want to get her back to your life.

Many times, guys make these mistakes which destroy any chance of them getting back their ex-girlfriends. You must know that when you are trying to get your ex-girlfriend back, you are ruled by emotions and not logics.

Firstly, do not just go up to her and tell her that you miss her or you really need her in your life. This will show that you are a very needy guy and will do you no good at all. It will probably make her thinks that she has made the right choice in leaving you.

What you need to do here is to make space for her to think about it. Hint her subtlety that maybe the both of you have ended too soon. You can also create “opportunity” to let her recall back the good times when both of you were together.
The key here is to let her remember the good times rather than the bad times. Humans are weird creatures; we do not tend to remember the good times and always have the bad memories floating around in our minds. If you really want to stand a chance of getting her back, you must let her recall more good times than bad times.

You can also be caring towards her but do not come across as needy. Slowly establish contact from emails and text messages, to phone calls and outings. At the same time, you should also start to socialize more and not put all your eggs into one basket. Get yourself out of the house and not ponder for hours if she does not replay your text message or reject you for an outing.

Sometimes, things cannot be forced. Try your best and let destiny decides the rest.

Wednesday, October 10, 2007

All About Cunnilingus... The Secret to Send Your Woman to Orgasms Heaven

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Sunday, October 7, 2007

Why Women Play Hard To Get – Part 3

The woman that you have interest in may have a bad history or experience with men.

She can either have been hurt badly in her past relationships or she may have seen how her friends have been cheated on.

She may also have seen how men boost about their capabilities in getting women on bed and ditching them right after that.

Therefore it is natural that before she commits into a relationship with you, she will want to know if you are trustworthy so that she will not get hurt.

In this case, her distrust in men will urge her to have the idea of playing hard to get with you.

A woman who has gone through such bad times and experiences in relationship tends to hold back more than anyone else. She may be trying her very best to overcome her own insecurity and fear by testing your intentions or commitment in this courtship.

Only when all her fears and doubts are gone, she will then be able to face and start a future relationship with you. Therefore what you need to do is to assist her in getting over her past and look forward for a new relationship with you.

But in some cases, women will have the mentality of leading men on even though they do not like them. Therefore there will be a possibility of her venting her anger out on you as she plots her revenge on guys. This type of girl is the scariest, and is best that you leave her alone and go look for some other normal ladies out there.

To be continued...

This is an excerpt of my book "29 Reasons Why Women Play Hard To Get". You can find out more about this book from my author’s resource box below.

Wednesday, October 3, 2007

Why Women Play Hard To Get – Part 2

If you are able to get something very easily, do you think you will treasure it more than something that you have spent so much effort and time that you finally get it?

When you were a kid, did you really cherish the things that you could easily get from your daddy? Or would you cherish something that you had spent time to strive for?

In relationship, this theory applies... Women want guys to cherish them more... They do not want to be seen as "easy targets".

Just imagine that you are so good that all women always say "Yes" to you. But one day, you met a girl who is so confident about herself and reject you straight in your face...

Do you feel that it’s a challenge and therefore raises your adrenalin of wanting this special lady 10 TIMES more badly than anyone else?

If she just sleeps with you after one night, and returns all your calls and texts every time, you will lose the interest in her as you know that the hunt is over.

Sometimes, a woman just wants to make you more aware of her emotional side. You have to "WORK" more for her affections as it is human nature to cherish something that you have worked for than just something you can get off the shelf.

Always remember that women are considered the most emotional creatures in this world! So satisfy their craving for emotional security.

She might also not want to let you have the feeling of taking her for granted if she says yes to you too early in the courtship. Let me illustrate why this is so.
From a simple survey that I have conducted between 10 guys, 8 of them said that they will not cherish their girlfriends if they are too easy to get.

Now do you know why she feels insecure if she agrees to be your girlfriend too early in the courtship?

To be continued…

This is an excerpt of my book "29 Reasons Why Women Play Hard To Get". You can find out more about this book from the link below:

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