Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Mistakes That Many Guys Make When Trying to Get Their Ex-Girlfriends Back...

Breakup is always hard to endure, as unhappiness, sadness and hatred will emerge and affect both parties.

Going through a relationship breakup is never an easy thing, especially if you are not the one who initials the break-up. During this period of time, you will feel very low and will tend to look for rebounds. But there are also common cases whereby you will want to get her back to your life.

Many times, guys make these mistakes which destroy any chance of them getting back their ex-girlfriends. You must know that when you are trying to get your ex-girlfriend back, you are ruled by emotions and not logics.

Firstly, do not just go up to her and tell her that you miss her or you really need her in your life. This will show that you are a very needy guy and will do you no good at all. It will probably make her thinks that she has made the right choice in leaving you.

What you need to do here is to make space for her to think about it. Hint her subtlety that maybe the both of you have ended too soon. You can also create “opportunity” to let her recall back the good times when both of you were together.
The key here is to let her remember the good times rather than the bad times. Humans are weird creatures; we do not tend to remember the good times and always have the bad memories floating around in our minds. If you really want to stand a chance of getting her back, you must let her recall more good times than bad times.

You can also be caring towards her but do not come across as needy. Slowly establish contact from emails and text messages, to phone calls and outings. At the same time, you should also start to socialize more and not put all your eggs into one basket. Get yourself out of the house and not ponder for hours if she does not replay your text message or reject you for an outing.

Sometimes, things cannot be forced. Try your best and let destiny decides the rest.

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