Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Why You Should Not Be Obsessed Over One Woman

Are you overly obsessed over one woman in your life? Do you feel that you cannot find someone better that the woman that you are obsessed over? Then you have definitely catch the deadly dating obsession disease...

I am pretty sure that mostly every guy will be guilty of this, which is to be obsessed over one particular woman, be it your friend, or a woman from your past relationship. A piece of dating advice from me is, being obsessed over one woman is not the same as being faithful to one woman.

When we talk about faithfulness, it is when you and a woman is in a relationship, and you show commitment and trust in this relationship by not fooling around. But being obsessed over one woman is when a man desires this one woman so much that they avoid any attempt to even date other women. This is not a healthy situation or attitude to have.

It is very common for guys to stuck with a certain girl, who no matter what you do; she just will not reciprocate the feeling that you have for her. In this case, my piece of dating advice to you is to move out of this situation as fast as you can! Stop obsessing over her. Rather than waiting on her to "come around," go out and live an active, full life with a variety of women in it.

I am pretty sure that if you make yourself "trapped" in this situation, it will cost you a lot of other things. You will be going down a "death relationship spiral", and missing out other opportunities to know more women out there. It can also greatly crush your confidence and self-esteem, which will make any future dates for you harder.

Therefore, I sincerely advise any guys who are obsessed over one woman to get a life! Get out of this "death relationship spiral". You can meet the girl that is truly yours out there, if you just start to know more women. Do not confuse between staying faithful and over obsession when come to dating women.

Monday, August 27, 2007

5 Most Powerful Tips to Succeed In Dating

To succeed in dating, the most important thing you must have is a positive mindset. With a powerful and positive mindset, nothing can stop you from getting the woman of your dream.

Dating is a very emotional behavior or action, where you depend on your subconscious mind most of the time. So in order to succeed in dating, you will need to beat the little voice inside of you.

Therefore to assist you in your future dating experiences, I am going to share with you 8 of the most powerful tips to help you to succeed in dating:

1. Forget about your past relationships. Do not let your past relationships, especially those which have failed, to affect the way you view new relationships. Sometimes memories should be forgotten as they can ensnare people. It is always beneficial to start over.

2. Be a little selfish. Treat yourself with more priority. There is a saying that “you should not put someone in your top priority if he or she does not even consider you as a priority.” Do what you want and what makes you happy.

3. Have optimism in your new or future relationships. Have faith in it and trust that it will work out. Do not go in with a state of mind that it will not last long.

4. Be yourself. It is common to be a different you at the start of the relationships as both of you will want to leave a good impression in each other minds. But you should always try your best to preserve your true characteristics as this is crucial in a long term relationship.

5. Treating each other with respects. All human being deserve a basic respect from one another. Therefore, take time to hear your partner out whenever there is an argument and respect what they have to say.

Bear these 5 tips in mind and apply to your relationships. You will definitely see improvements in your dating experiences.

Wednesday, August 22, 2007

Have the Confidence In Yourself Before You Approach Women....

Many men have problems when it comes to approaching women. They find that the art of approaching women is one of the hardest techniques that they can master successfully. To successfully approach women, it is not as hard as you may think.

There are various reasons why your effort to approach a particular woman ends in vain. One of the most common reason is that you do not even trust yourself in the beginning.

Are you having the following thoughts in your mind before you approach a woman?

1. "I will definitely stammer later."
2. "I am too ugly to attract her."
3. "What is she rejects me?"
4. "She will not like a poor man like me."

If you are having any one of the above thoughts, get rid of it now. They are not real but just some imaginative, demorailzing and destroying thoughts.

Have confidence in yourself, and do not let any of the self-limiting reason above to stop you from approaching women. All you need to do is to step up to the woman and casually start a conversation with her.

To successfully approach woman, you will need to make her feel that you are not trying to date her. Don't use pickup lines that sound sleazy, and this will straight away give you away.

Show her that you are just being friendly and trying to know more friends. Dress well and be confident, you will eventually succeed.

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Sunday, August 19, 2007

How To Get The Woman That You Want Successfully...

How to get the woman that you like? Some of you may find it hard to get the woman that you really want, but if you know the trick to approach her, it is not that hard after all...

To approach a woman on the street who you do not know at all, and start chatting up with her may send some shivers down your spine. But if you really want to master the skill of getting women successfully, you will need to pick up your courage and do it.

Let me just share with you some tips in this blog post so that you can apply them right away to approach and get the woman that you want:

Approaching Woman Tip #1: Look for something common between you and her. If you are a gamer, and you happened to meet a woman that you like in a game shop, be sure to use this opportunity to approach her. Find something common between you and her. Simply ask her “You love playing this game too? How long have you started this?” From there, you can share some pointers you have with her and yes dude, it’s that simple.

Approaching Woman Tip #2: You need to be able to take rejection. Rejection is no big deal, it does not mean that you are a failure if you are rejected by women. It is just part and parcel of the dating process.

In approaching woman, you can’t expect everyone to like you. If you happen to approach a woman who rejects you, move on to the next one. It is a number game, the more women you approach, the higher your success rate. You must remember that there is only a 1% chance that you will get a slap in the face if you approach a particular woman, so why fear? At most you just get a “No”, right?

These are just 2 simple tips that you need to apply while you are approaching woman for a date. Be sure to start practicing them now to enjoy success with women.

Thursday, August 16, 2007

4 Simple Tips On How You Can Approach Women

It is not difficult to approach women, it is only a matter of whether do you know how to do it. In this blog post, let me just share with you 4 simple tips that you can use right away to approach women, anywhere, anytime..

Here are 4 tips that you can use to approach woman.

Tip #1 to approach woman: Be humorous. Woman loves to be entertained. By telling a joke, you will create a deep impression for her to remember you, and most importantly you get her to start chatting with you.

Tip #2 to approach woman: Ask her some questions.
It is easiest for someone to start talking to you by having you to start asking some questions. When you ask a question, you have to get an answer from that person unless she really hates you at the first sight. But chances of such incident happening is also really low.

Tip #3 to approach woman: Ask her for a favour. Approach her and ask if she could help you look after your belongings for a short while as you have some errands to run. When you come back, you can thank her by offering to give her a treat at a nearby starbucks café.

Tip #4 to approach woman: Offer her some help.
Be a gentleman and offer her some help when you see her carrying tons of stuff. She will return you a thank you and your conversation can start from there.

There are unlimited ways and methods you can use to approach any women depending on the situation that you are in. There is never a bad situation, just bad techniques.

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Sunday, August 12, 2007

What Are The 5 Common Mistakes That Men Make In Dating?

In this post, I am going to share with you what are some of the most common mistakes that men make during dating, that destroy their chances of getting women...

When approaching women, men will need to bear some points in mind so as not to make the same mistakes like other guys make. Here are the top 5 common mistakes men make when approaching a woman:

1. Approaching without a plan.
If you never plan, you are planning to fail. Although you can always improvise on the spot, but by having a plan, it will always increase your chances of coming across as a person she might consider dating.

2. Lie to women. When a man does not give enough respect and credit to a woman, he is going to fail. Most men think that they can fool a woman into giving them their number. Listen, women know that you are trying to pick them up, so do not beat around the bush. Be direct and let them know exactly what you want.

3. Forgetting about her comfort zone. It is important for you to realize that most women will be on their guard when you first approach them. This is normal, and therefore it is extremely important for you to come across as a harmless guy. Being a little humorous always help.

4. Acting like a pervert.
Do not just stare at her boobs when you just got to meet a woman, it will only bring across to her that you are a pervert. Instead, lock your eyes into hers while talking to her, it shows that you respect her and are interested to know her more.

5. Do not act like an irresponsible man. In reality, men are very bad to women. There is always a heavy price to pay for breaking a heart. When you are faithful to a woman, you will reap the rewards in the long run.

Hope that you do not make these common mistakes that most men make.

Wednesday, August 8, 2007

How To Talk To Her Without Stammering

It is the biggest fear of men to stammer when they are having a conversation with women. Reasons that you will stammer in front of women are because you are not confident in yourself and do not know how to talk to women.

To have a great conversation with a woman is not that hard at all. Women like men who provide listening ears to them as they share their emotions and feelings to them. For you to have a great conversation with her, the first thing you will need to do is to tell yourself to listen more than you talk.

Women do not need you to comment or tell them what to do, they will rather you sit there and listen to them. But you do not just sit there like a dumb-ass; do some actions and shows that you are actually paying attention to her. I am going to share with you some of the steps that you need to do when you are in a conversation with a woman so as to have a great conversation with her.

1. Try to understand what she is interested in, and forget about yourself for a moment. Focus the attention to her and give her sincere complementation.

2. Listen attentively. Remember, talk less, and listen more. Response to what she say with simple words like "Yes", or "I understand". This shows that you are actually paying attention to what she is saying to you.

3. Respond cleverly when she asks for your opinions, by paraphrasing what you have heard from her in your own words. It shows respect for her when you use your "speaking turn" to show you have been listening and not just to say something new.

4. Knows when the time for you to speak is. This is a very important step as sometimes she will run out of topics to talk to you. In this case, you will need to carry on and lead the conversation instead. One of the ways to carry on with the conversation is to ask questions according to how much you get to know her, and let her gives you the answers.

5. Remember to have eye contact with her. Having eye contact when you are in a conversation with a woman is definitely a great way to seduce her. If you are sitting close to her, you may want to have slight body contact with her.

Talking to a woman is not that hard at all as long as you shut the little voice inside of you that tell you “You cannot do it”. Believe in yourself, you can do it. Women are just human being after all.

Sunday, August 5, 2007

How to Beat Other Men in The Dating Game....

Dating is a very competitive game, it is either you get the girl that you love, or some other guys get the girl. A lot of self-confidence and motivation are needed to survive in this game.

In the dating game, you will have a lot of competitors, some are tough, some are just weak. The point here is, if you want to succeed in dating, you should not allow yourself to fall into the weak category.

But in reality, it is very easy to fall into the weak category, especially for men who just broke off from their long term relationship....

When you have just ended a long term relationship, the period after that is a difficult one. Most of the guys will be wondering what will happen? Will they ever get a new special woman in their life? I think it's easy for men to become so comfortable and emotionally dependent in a relationship that they experience a lot of FEAR when ending that relationship.

Getting back to the “dating game” is not as hard as what you guys think. If you know how to go out anytime to meet women, you should not be afraid at all, because those set of skills are still deeply rooted in your brain.

When you know how to go out anytime and meet women, you will have the following benefits:

1) When you know that you can meet women anytime you want, it makes you stop acting so NEEDY and CLINGY in a relationship. Most needy and clingy behaviors are rooted in the FEAR that you will never be able to find another woman.

2) When it comes to ending a relationship, this skill makes things MUCH easier. Too many of you guys stay in relationships that are bad for you, and are afraid to END a relationship because of that deeply-rooted insecurity that comes from not knowing how to walk out the door anytime, anywhere and meet women.

When comes to dealing with competition from other guys when you are out of the "dating game" for a long time, there are actually 2 reasons to find the root of the problem.

1) INSECURITY. When you are insecure and do not trust yourself, you will always fear that someone else CAN snatch away your girlfriend/date. This is a bad thing because it then clouds your thinking, and creates an illusion that the woman you're with is BETTER than she is, and that you're WORSE than you are.

2) Jealousy. Jealousy is useless, and it can leads to stupid emotion like anger and anger may leads to violence. Women hate violence. If you resort to violence, I can bet that she will leave you immediately.

Therefore, you will need to feel confident about yourself first, so that it will not lead to jealousy.

Women are attracted to guys who are confident, and if she wants to leave, you can’t stop her anyway. And if she really leaves, just look for a new woman! Why fear?

Wednesday, August 1, 2007

How to Get Your Girlfriend to Kiss and Hug You More Often

Physical contact between your girlfriend and you is very important to maintain a healthy relationship. Kisses and hugs will show that both of you are still deeply in love with each other. But when one of you feels that the other half does not show romantic gestures very often, it may cause him or her to lose self-esteem and confidence in the relationship.

Therefore, let met share with you some of the ways to maintain the romantic gestures between you and your girlfriend during relationships.

1. Show her affection, when walking in the mall, hold her hand. When you greet her, give her a kiss to show her you care about her. Snuggle next to her on the couch, with your arm around her, and your fingers playing with her ear lobe, or her neck. When you give affection, you will get it.

2. Before you get affection from her, you must give it to her first. Do not wait for her to do it first just because that you cannot put down your ego.

3. Be lovable so as to make her want to be around you. Have a good sense of humor. Discuss things that you both have in common.

4. Ask her for a kiss as this is a sure way to get one from your girlfriend.

5. Compliment her when she does something nice. Do not just be false in your words. Be honest and she will enjoy you more. It is a normal act that is displayed when one truly cares for the other. Just be yourself, be fun to be with and enjoy her company.

Maintaining romantic gestures during relationships is definitely a great way to create and maintain the sparks between you and her.

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