Happy Thanks-Giving Day...

Hope you guys have enjoyed a wonderful thanks-giving day!! It is really nice to see everyone counting their blessings and giving thanks to the creator of the world.

For me, I have decided to throw in a 50% discount on my dating ebook, which is now selling at $9. If you are interested, you can visit the link below to take a look.

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Lets look forward to Christmas!

Cheers.

Why Women Play Hard To Get – Part 3

The woman that you have interest in may have a bad history or experience with men.

She can either have been hurt badly in her past relationships or she may have seen how her friends have been cheated on.

She may also have seen how men boost about their capabilities in getting women on bed and ditching them right after that.

Therefore it is natural that before she commits into a relationship with you, she will want to know if you are trustworthy so that she will not get hurt.

In this case, her distrust in men will urge her to have the idea of playing hard to get with you.

A woman who has gone through such bad times and experiences in relationship tends to hold back more than anyone else. She may be trying her very best to overcome her own insecurity and fear by testing your intentions or commitment in this courtship.

Only when all her fears and doubts are gone, she will then be able to face and start a future relationship with you. Therefore what you need to do is to assist her in getting over her past and look forward for a new relationship with you.

But in some cases, women will have the mentality of leading men on even though they do not like them. Therefore there will be a possibility of her venting her anger out on you as she plots her revenge on guys. This type of girl is the scariest, and is best that you leave her alone and go look for some other normal ladies out there.

To be continued...

This is an excerpt of my book "29 Reasons Why Women Play Hard To Get". You can find out more about this book from my author’s resource box below.

Why Women Play Hard To Get – Part 2

If you are able to get something very easily, do you think you will treasure it more than something that you have spent so much effort and time that you finally get it?

When you were a kid, did you really cherish the things that you could easily get from your daddy? Or would you cherish something that you had spent time to strive for?

In relationship, this theory applies... Women want guys to cherish them more... They do not want to be seen as "easy targets".

Just imagine that you are so good that all women always say "Yes" to you. But one day, you met a girl who is so confident about herself and reject you straight in your face...

Do you feel that it’s a challenge and therefore raises your adrenalin of wanting this special lady 10 TIMES more badly than anyone else?

If she just sleeps with you after one night, and returns all your calls and texts every time, you will lose the interest in her as you know that the hunt is over.

Sometimes, a woman just wants to make you more aware of her emotional side. You have to "WORK" more for her affections as it is human nature to cherish something that you have worked for than just something you can get off the shelf.

Always remember that women are considered the most emotional creatures in this world! So satisfy their craving for emotional security.

She might also not want to let you have the feeling of taking her for granted if she says yes to you too early in the courtship. Let me illustrate why this is so.
From a simple survey that I have conducted between 10 guys, 8 of them said that they will not cherish their girlfriends if they are too easy to get.

Now do you know why she feels insecure if she agrees to be your girlfriend too early in the courtship?

To be continued…

This is an excerpt of my book "29 Reasons Why Women Play Hard To Get". You can find out more about this book from the link below:

www.whywomenplayhardtoget.com

How to Get Women to Chase You?

To make women chasing you instead of you putting all the effort is not hard after all. There is one change you can make in your thinking and behavior that will definitely increase your success rate in attracting women.

This change is not a very difficult for you to do it, and is not something that will only work for a tall, good-looking guy who already has success with women. So what exactly is the change that you can make right away to attract women?

Women are attracted to men that they cannot control. They are not attracted to men that they can control. So in order to get women to chase you rather than you chasing them, you will need to change the way you think about attraction for women, especially in this aspect.

You need to believe that becoming a “bad boy” that women cannot control or anticipate your next move, will definitely increase your success rate in getting women as your girlfriends. I am not telling you to go out there and break women hearts, is just to let you understand that women will not be attracted to men that are too nice to them.

You must do something that's far more "subtle" than that and you'll have to learn the
techniques that go along with this mindset. Being too nice to women will position you to them as “yet another guy who likes them” kind of guy. You will not want to be seen in this manner and it will definitely jeopardize your success in attracting them.

So guys, take some time to adopt this particular mindset and start talking to women in a whole new approach. Tease them; be arrogant yet humorous at the same time. You will definitely reap the rewards if you can make this change.

How to Date Your Co Workers

It is very common to meet an opposite sex that you are interested at your workplace. You may be wondering how you can date her out; without making her think that you are too aggressive. I will share with you now what are the ways that you can use to approach this.

1. Get to know her more. Do not be too aggressive at the beginning if you do not get to her at all. Make her feel comfortable being with you around as a colleague first.

2. Make small jokes of her so as to break ice.

3. Whatever things that they tell you, try to remember them. Girls are impresses with guys who pay attention to what they are saying.

4. Make small talk; bring up normal things to talk about. For example, school, movies, or music.

5. Show interest in what they have interest for.

6. Do your research. Ask around to find out whether she has a boyfriend.

7. Ask her for her number. If she gives it to you, it is a good sign.

8. Once you get to know her more, ask her if she would like to hang out (on days off or before/after work).

9. If both of you have a good time while hanging out and she is available, try asking her to be your girlfriend.

10. If she needs more time, do not try to push her too much. Respect her decision and let her think about it. At the mean time, carry on with your life and do not make her think that your life is only revolving around her.

But if you get the chance to have her as your girlfriend, you must be prepared to face her at your workplace if you break up.

She Is Playing Hard To Get - So Now What?

I believe you guys out there have probably met some women who played hard to get with you before, and you do not have a single clue why they behave in those manners, am I right?

Actually, it is very normal for women to play hard to get with us, Men. By playing hard to get with us, they can know a lot of things about us. For example, how serious are we in wooing them, are we determined enough, etc. They can also create more sparks by playing hard to get with us, as they think that they will make us miss and love them more!

Therefore, we have to accept the fact that women will always play hard to get with us, no matter whether do they like us or not. So it is very important to know what are the reasons behind them playing hard to get, because sometimes when a woman plays hard to get with a guy, she is simply not interested in him, and it is advisable for him to move on.

So whenever now if you meet a woman who plays hard to get with you (you most probably will meet one), the first thing is to know why she plays it, by judging her actions and analyzing the situation. Then from there, you can determined whether if she is worth the chase.

How to Break Up with Her Using Sensitivity

I know that for some guys, asking for a breakup is a very hard thing to say out.

Breaking up is always hard to take for anyone who is in a relationship. No one likes the feeling of being dumped, but break-ups are an unavoidable part of our lives. For you guys out there, it is very important to end a relationship properly to avoid future bad relationship karma.

1. Do it in person. To initial a break-up over the phone to her is harsh. Meet up with her and explain why the relationship between you and her does not work out.

2. Pick an appropriate place. Remember, ending a relationship is a humbling experience. Don't do it in a place where the person on the receiving end is going to feel more vulnerable than necessary.

3. Choose the right time. Try not to break up with her on special occasion or festive period, as you will not want her to remember you being so insensitive when every time that day rolls around.

4. Be honest. Tell her what does not work out. Let her understand that she will need to accept the truth and move on but do it in a sensitive way.

5. Keep your emotions in check. Don't seem too happy about the breakup: you'll come off as mean-spirited. Just be kind, caring, and considerate.

6. Don't over- react. Some people don't handle rejection well. Some people yell, scream, and cry. Do not react to their meltdown. Remember, rejection is tough. You've already got the upper hand by being the dumper. Let the dumpee behave ridiculously if they choose to. And if their tantrum escalates, get the heck out of there.

If you handle yourself well during the breakup, chances are you'll avoid any hard feelings with your ex. And while that may not seem so important at the time, it's vital to your future relationship karma!

Why Do Women Like to Play Hard To Get?

Women are hard to understand, and do not even think of guessing what are they thinking about. Trust me, you will go crazy. I know it is hard to take when a woman that you are so eagerly chasing is playing hard to get with you, and you do not know why she does that.

Sometimes, the things women do when in relationships are out of this world, at least not for the men to understand. A man will think that if a woman plays hard to get with him, she is definitely interested in him, just to show that she does not want to seem too easy to get. But is it true all the times? Or is she just simply not interested?

There are just too many reasons and possibilities that why women play hard to get with men during relationships. A few of the common reasons are:

1) They do not want to be seem as easy targets.
2) They want men to treasure them more when they finally get together.
3) They are simply not interested in the relationships or the men.

So when you happen to meet a girl who plays hard to get with you in the future, try to recall what are some common reasons why she does this. Then what you can do is to play to the situation. But please do not turn into a needy wuss who begs her to be together with you, it will only turn her off.

Instead have some dignity and confidence in yourself, and prepare to walk away if you feel that nothing can be work out from the both of you. Continue to live your own life and go out and meet more people. This will make her realize that you life does not only evolves around her.

You can find out more about Why Women Play Hard To Get from my book here.

Why is The Tactic of Playing Hard To Get So Commonly Used By Women?

Women are hard to understand, and do not even think of guessing what are they thinking about, you will go crazy, trust me. I know it is hard to take when a woman that you are so eagerly chasing is playing hard to get with you, and you do not know why she does that.

Sometimes, the things women do when in relationships are out of this world, at least not for the men to understand. A man will think that if a woman plays hard to get with him, she is definitely interested in him, just to show that she does not want to seem too easy to get. But is it true all the times? Or is she just simply not interested?

There are just too many reasons and possibilities that why women play hard to get with men during relationships. A few of the common reasons are: 1) They do not want to be seem as easy targets. 2) They want men to treasure them more when they finally succeed. 3) They are simply not interested in the relationships or the men.

Anyway, the best is not to guess them yourselves. You can find out more about the reasons from my book here.

Talk to you soon..