Many guys are lack confidence when it comes to dating gorgeous women. They think that so called "gorgeous women" are definitely harder to date when compared to other "normal" women. To me, they are all women. The same old dating rules still apply.
To successfully date a gorgeous woman, you need to have the right knowledge and techniques to know how to do it. Let me share with you 4 tips that you can use in your dating game:
1. Understand her. A gorgeous woman does not lack of suitors. She has most probably seen so many guys, that she thinks that no man seems special to her. Therefore, to increase your chance of success, you will need to take different actions to produce different results. You need to do what other guys are not doing.
2. Have self-belief. You must believe in yourself first before we talk about dating women. Even if you are short or broke, you CAN STILL attract gorgeous women. Are you with me? Having the right mindset first is very important when it comes to dating. If you do not believe in yourself that you can attract her and go to approach a woman, you have already lost half the battle even before you open your mouth to talk.
3. Know how to strike out a conversation with stranger. You must be confident to approach any woman and starts a conversation with her. If you lack courage, you are not going to attract anyone. When starting a conversation with a woman, do not ask her "Yes" or "No" question, as you are just giving her a chance to reject you. Instead of asking her question like "Do you like to do sports", try asking her "You seem to me like a very sporty woman. Why do you love sports so much?" Get it?
4. Create attraction. To successfully date a woman, you need to create attraction first. Attraction can be created by the way you speak to her, the way you carry yourself, the actions that you use while talking and the charisma in you. To make a gorgeous woman falls for you, you MUST create attraction. If you are able to speak well and make her enjoy your company, you have already won half the battle.
One thing to note is that many men feel intimidated by beautiful women. If you want to succeed in dating them, you MUST NOT feel intimidated. Take control of the situation and distinguished yourself from most other guys out there. The key is to be DIFFERENT.
You can date the most gorgeous woman not even in your wildest dream, as long as you know how to approach her and create attraction...
Thursday, December 20, 2007
4 Tips To Date A Gorgeous Woman
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Sunday, November 25, 2007
Start A Conversation With Any Girl With These 4 Simple Tips
Always remember one thing... if you want to start a successful conversation with a girl, DO NOT use pick up lines... she will find it very stupid and unoriginal.
Girls expect something more clever from you, if she is to agree to give you her phone number or go out on a date with you. They want something more original from you. Therefore, if you still wish to stand a chance in asking her out for future dates, approach her in a more natural and real manner.
Let us now discuss 4 simple tips that you can use to start a conversation with any girl:
1. Be observant of the surroundings. For example, pay attention on what she wears and hold, and study the surroundings of the place. This will give you more ideas on what to talk about later on when you approach her.
2. Pick up your courage and just do it. Do not procrastinate and consider, as this will eventually cause you to either miss the opportunity or psych yourself out. Therefore the key here is to act fast, pick up your courage and go. Do not be afraid of rejection.
3. Do not ask her a "Yes" or "No" question. Let say that you ask her a question as followed: "Do you love to play sports?" You are basically giving her a chance to give you a one-word answer "NO!". Conversation ends. Period. Instead of asking her questions like this, ask her something like "You look very sporty, what makes you like doing sports so much?". Do you see the difference here? The second example will enable the both of you to lead the conversation further.
4. Adopt a confident mindset. If you are not confident about yourself and are thinking of all sorts of negative thoughts even before you approach her, you are doom for rejection... Think positively, and trust yourself more.
To start a conversation with a girl is NOT as hard as you imagine. As long as you don't screw things up, you will be able to make the conversation flows smoothly.
Before you go... Do Find Out How To Approach Any Woman, Anywhere And Know Exactly What To Say To Get Her To Give You Her Number And Go On A Date With You...
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Sunday, November 18, 2007
5 Hot Tips On How to Be Irresistible to Women
At some point of our lives as men, we will be thinking about how we can be irresistible to women. But most of the times, we do not want to seek for the answers as our men egos emerge and kill off any chances for us to triumph in the dating game.
If you have just 5 minutes to spare, I am going to share with you 5 hot tips that you can make yourself irresistible to women:
Hot Tip #1: Hang out with beautiful chicks. Women love competition, and will see a guy with lots of women around him as an attractive man. It also shows that you are not a needy person who always needs to depend on one woman.
Hot Tip #2: Have eye contact. By looking into her eyes while you are out with her, it shows that you are a very confident man. She will also get the hint that you are interested in her and women just love it when men look into their eyes.
Hot Tip #3: Bad boy. Like it or not, the bad boy still rules. Most women will fall victims to bad boys as they feel that being around with bad boys are very exciting and believe that one day they can change them for good.
Hot Tip #4: Provide a listening ear. Women always want men to listen to them when they have problems. By just sitting down and listen to her whining instead of providing solutions to her, you are doing her a very big favor.
Hot Tip #5: Find out what are her interests. Women love to talk, therefore you must know how to get her to talk about what she is crazy about. Make her feel that the both of can really get along very well.
Wait! Before you go out there and apply the tips on the first woman that you are going to meet, find out what exactly to say to her so that you can get her to give you her phone number for sure…
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Wednesday, October 31, 2007
4 Tips On Overcoming Shyness On Your First Date With Your Girl
If you want to stand a chance to establish a good impression in the eyes of the girl that you are dating, you will need to successfully overcome shyness on your first date.
You will not want to think that you are just a small timid boy, as this will greatly destroy any of your chance to successfully make her your girlfriend. Therefore, overcoming shyness should be your top priority before you go on your date with her.
Usually the fear that you feel when shyness hits you is usually much worse than what you will expect in the reality. Shyness is not real at all, and there is nothing that you should be afraid of. Why are you afraid to meet a girl? It is nothing near life and death...
To overcome shyness on your first date, you will need to confront your fear directly:
1. Dress up yourself. When you feel that you look good before a date, you will feel more confident about yourself. You will tend to talk more confidently and show that you are in control.
2. Choose to eliminate any negative thoughts. For once, tell yourself that you will only think of the positives. Throw all negatives thoughts, fears, and rejections out of the window. Approach your first date with absolute confidence and optimism.
3. Plan for your very first date. Before the first date, make sure that you do the necessary preparation. Find out as much as possible about what she likes, what are her hobbies, what is her lifestyle, etc. With all these information, you will be able to come out with topics to talk about during the date so as to eliminate any awkwardness of silence.
4. Give yourself more respect. You will need to love and respect yourself more. There is nothing wrong about feeling shy in dating, and it does not mean that you are inferior in anyway. Combat your fear of shyness and overcome it.
By overcoming your shyness on your first date, she will see you as a man who is confident, composed, and able to take the lead. All these elements will create the attraction that is necessary for her to fall for you.
You can get more tips and resources on how you can overcome your shyness from the website below:
Click Here --> www.whywomenplayhardtoget.com/recommendation/Guy-Gets-Girl.html
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Sunday, October 28, 2007
5 Common Mistakes Men Make In Dating
When approaching women, men need to bear a few points in mind so as not to make the common mistakes that other guys tend to make. So let us just discuss the top 5 common mistakes men make when approaching a woman:
1. Approaching without a plan. If you never plan, you are planning to fail. Although you can always improvise on the spot, but by having a plan, it will always increase your chances of coming across as a person she might consider dating.
2. Lie to women. When a man does not give enough respect and credit to a woman, he is going to fail. Most men think that they can fool a woman into giving them their number. Listen, women know that you are trying to pick them up, so do not beat around the bush. Be direct and let them know exactly what you want.
3. Forgetting about her comfort zone. It is important for you to realize that most women will be on their guard when you first approach them. This is normal, and therefore it is extremely important for you to come across as a harmless guy. Being a little humorous always help.
4. Acting like a pervert. Do not just stare at her boobs when you just got to meet a woman, it will only bring across to her that you are a pervert. Instead, lock your eyes into hers while talking to her, it shows that you respect her and are interested to know her more.
5. Do not be an irresponsible man. In reality, men are very bad to women. There is always a heavy price to pay for breaking a heart. When you are faithful to a woman, you will reap the rewards in the long run.
Hope that you do not make these common mistakes that most men make. By bearing these 5 points in mind, you will be able to increase your likelihood of succeeding in getting women to be in relationships with you.
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Wednesday, October 24, 2007
Why Is Body Language So Important in Dating?
Body language does really play a very important role when you are dating women, because majority of human communication is non-verbal. Your body language reveals a lot about your personality, and what exactly you are communicating to women.
By judging a person body language, you will have a glimpse of an idea whether he or she has just broken up with their loves one, or have just gotten into a relationship that he or she wants.
Therefore when it comes to dating, men should pay a lot of attention of what they are communicating to women non-verbally, that is through their body language. Communication non-verbally can happen very subtlety, and that is why you must really know what body language consists of so that you will not give out the wrong body language signal:
1. Your face. Relax your facial muscles and never ever tense your jaw.
2. Your voice. Speak in a calm, slow and confident manner. Do not strain your voice, or try to put up some funny accent.
3. The placement of your body. Try to take up more space by spreading your legs and arms.
4. Your shoulders. Do not raise your shoulders unnecessarily as it will imply to the woman that you are a very nervous person. Keep them relax at all times.
5. Your overall body movement. Do not make it seems that you are rushing for time. Move through the world doing what you want, and assume that others will follow.
If your body language does not match what you say, you will not succeed with women. If you are excited about something that a woman says, show it with the right body language. If you show it by slumping over and folding your arms, then you will come across very fake.
With the right body language and mindset, it means you will be comfortable and enjoying yourself... with the woman, and succeed in the dating game...
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Wednesday, October 3, 2007
Why Women Play Hard To Get – Part 2
If you are able to get something very easily, do you think you will treasure it more than something that you have spent so much effort and time that you finally get it?
When you were a kid, did you really cherish the things that you could easily get from your daddy? Or would you cherish something that you had spent time to strive for?
In relationship, this theory applies... Women want guys to cherish them more... They do not want to be seen as "easy targets".
Just imagine that you are so good that all women always say "Yes" to you. But one day, you met a girl who is so confident about herself and reject you straight in your face...
Do you feel that it’s a challenge and therefore raises your adrenalin of wanting this special lady 10 TIMES more badly than anyone else?
If she just sleeps with you after one night, and returns all your calls and texts every time, you will lose the interest in her as you know that the hunt is over.
Sometimes, a woman just wants to make you more aware of her emotional side. You have to "WORK" more for her affections as it is human nature to cherish something that you have worked for than just something you can get off the shelf.
Always remember that women are considered the most emotional creatures in this world! So satisfy their craving for emotional security.
She might also not want to let you have the feeling of taking her for granted if she says yes to you too early in the courtship. Let me illustrate why this is so.
From a simple survey that I have conducted between 10 guys, 8 of them said that they will not cherish their girlfriends if they are too easy to get.
Now do you know why she feels insecure if she agrees to be your girlfriend too early in the courtship?
To be continued…
This is an excerpt of my book "29 Reasons Why Women Play Hard To Get". You can find out more about this book from the link below:
www.whywomenplayhardtoget.com
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Monday, August 27, 2007
5 Most Powerful Tips to Succeed In Dating
To succeed in dating, the most important thing you must have is a positive mindset. With a powerful and positive mindset, nothing can stop you from getting the woman of your dream.
Dating is a very emotional behavior or action, where you depend on your subconscious mind most of the time. So in order to succeed in dating, you will need to beat the little voice inside of you.
Therefore to assist you in your future dating experiences, I am going to share with you 8 of the most powerful tips to help you to succeed in dating:
1. Forget about your past relationships. Do not let your past relationships, especially those which have failed, to affect the way you view new relationships. Sometimes memories should be forgotten as they can ensnare people. It is always beneficial to start over.
2. Be a little selfish. Treat yourself with more priority. There is a saying that “you should not put someone in your top priority if he or she does not even consider you as a priority.” Do what you want and what makes you happy.
3. Have optimism in your new or future relationships. Have faith in it and trust that it will work out. Do not go in with a state of mind that it will not last long.
4. Be yourself. It is common to be a different you at the start of the relationships as both of you will want to leave a good impression in each other minds. But you should always try your best to preserve your true characteristics as this is crucial in a long term relationship.
5. Treating each other with respects. All human being deserve a basic respect from one another. Therefore, take time to hear your partner out whenever there is an argument and respect what they have to say.
Bear these 5 tips in mind and apply to your relationships. You will definitely see improvements in your dating experiences.
Sunday, August 12, 2007
What Are The 5 Common Mistakes That Men Make In Dating?
In this post, I am going to share with you what are some of the most common mistakes that men make during dating, that destroy their chances of getting women...
When approaching women, men will need to bear some points in mind so as not to make the same mistakes like other guys make. Here are the top 5 common mistakes men make when approaching a woman:
1. Approaching without a plan. If you never plan, you are planning to fail. Although you can always improvise on the spot, but by having a plan, it will always increase your chances of coming across as a person she might consider dating.
2. Lie to women. When a man does not give enough respect and credit to a woman, he is going to fail. Most men think that they can fool a woman into giving them their number. Listen, women know that you are trying to pick them up, so do not beat around the bush. Be direct and let them know exactly what you want.
3. Forgetting about her comfort zone. It is important for you to realize that most women will be on their guard when you first approach them. This is normal, and therefore it is extremely important for you to come across as a harmless guy. Being a little humorous always help.
4. Acting like a pervert. Do not just stare at her boobs when you just got to meet a woman, it will only bring across to her that you are a pervert. Instead, lock your eyes into hers while talking to her, it shows that you respect her and are interested to know her more.
5. Do not act like an irresponsible man. In reality, men are very bad to women. There is always a heavy price to pay for breaking a heart. When you are faithful to a woman, you will reap the rewards in the long run.
Hope that you do not make these common mistakes that most men make.
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Wednesday, August 8, 2007
How To Talk To Her Without Stammering
It is the biggest fear of men to stammer when they are having a conversation with women. Reasons that you will stammer in front of women are because you are not confident in yourself and do not know how to talk to women.
To have a great conversation with a woman is not that hard at all. Women like men who provide listening ears to them as they share their emotions and feelings to them. For you to have a great conversation with her, the first thing you will need to do is to tell yourself to listen more than you talk.
Women do not need you to comment or tell them what to do, they will rather you sit there and listen to them. But you do not just sit there like a dumb-ass; do some actions and shows that you are actually paying attention to her. I am going to share with you some of the steps that you need to do when you are in a conversation with a woman so as to have a great conversation with her.
1. Try to understand what she is interested in, and forget about yourself for a moment. Focus the attention to her and give her sincere complementation.
2. Listen attentively. Remember, talk less, and listen more. Response to what she say with simple words like "Yes", or "I understand". This shows that you are actually paying attention to what she is saying to you.
3. Respond cleverly when she asks for your opinions, by paraphrasing what you have heard from her in your own words. It shows respect for her when you use your "speaking turn" to show you have been listening and not just to say something new.
4. Knows when the time for you to speak is. This is a very important step as sometimes she will run out of topics to talk to you. In this case, you will need to carry on and lead the conversation instead. One of the ways to carry on with the conversation is to ask questions according to how much you get to know her, and let her gives you the answers.
5. Remember to have eye contact with her. Having eye contact when you are in a conversation with a woman is definitely a great way to seduce her. If you are sitting close to her, you may want to have slight body contact with her.
Talking to a woman is not that hard at all as long as you shut the little voice inside of you that tell you “You cannot do it”. Believe in yourself, you can do it. Women are just human being after all.
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