Why Women Play Hard To Get – Part 3

The woman that you have interest in may have a bad history or experience with men.

She can either have been hurt badly in her past relationships or she may have seen how her friends have been cheated on.

She may also have seen how men boost about their capabilities in getting women on bed and ditching them right after that.

Therefore it is natural that before she commits into a relationship with you, she will want to know if you are trustworthy so that she will not get hurt.

In this case, her distrust in men will urge her to have the idea of playing hard to get with you.

A woman who has gone through such bad times and experiences in relationship tends to hold back more than anyone else. She may be trying her very best to overcome her own insecurity and fear by testing your intentions or commitment in this courtship.

Only when all her fears and doubts are gone, she will then be able to face and start a future relationship with you. Therefore what you need to do is to assist her in getting over her past and look forward for a new relationship with you.

But in some cases, women will have the mentality of leading men on even though they do not like them. Therefore there will be a possibility of her venting her anger out on you as she plots her revenge on guys. This type of girl is the scariest, and is best that you leave her alone and go look for some other normal ladies out there.

To be continued...

This is an excerpt of my book "29 Reasons Why Women Play Hard To Get". You can find out more about this book from my author’s resource box below.

Why Women Play Hard To Get – Part 2

If you are able to get something very easily, do you think you will treasure it more than something that you have spent so much effort and time that you finally get it?

When you were a kid, did you really cherish the things that you could easily get from your daddy? Or would you cherish something that you had spent time to strive for?

In relationship, this theory applies... Women want guys to cherish them more... They do not want to be seen as "easy targets".

Just imagine that you are so good that all women always say "Yes" to you. But one day, you met a girl who is so confident about herself and reject you straight in your face...

Do you feel that it’s a challenge and therefore raises your adrenalin of wanting this special lady 10 TIMES more badly than anyone else?

If she just sleeps with you after one night, and returns all your calls and texts every time, you will lose the interest in her as you know that the hunt is over.

Sometimes, a woman just wants to make you more aware of her emotional side. You have to "WORK" more for her affections as it is human nature to cherish something that you have worked for than just something you can get off the shelf.

Always remember that women are considered the most emotional creatures in this world! So satisfy their craving for emotional security.

She might also not want to let you have the feeling of taking her for granted if she says yes to you too early in the courtship. Let me illustrate why this is so.
From a simple survey that I have conducted between 10 guys, 8 of them said that they will not cherish their girlfriends if they are too easy to get.

Now do you know why she feels insecure if she agrees to be your girlfriend too early in the courtship?

To be continued…

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How to Get Your Girlfriend to Kiss and Hug You More Often

Physical contact between your girlfriend and you is very important to maintain a healthy relationship. Kisses and hugs will show that both of you are still deeply in love with each other. But when one of you feels that the other half does not show romantic gestures very often, it may cause him or her to lose self-esteem and confidence in the relationship.

Therefore, let met share with you some of the ways to maintain the romantic gestures between you and your girlfriend during relationships.

1. Show her affection, when walking in the mall, hold her hand. When you greet her, give her a kiss to show her you care about her. Snuggle next to her on the couch, with your arm around her, and your fingers playing with her ear lobe, or her neck. When you give affection, you will get it.

2. Before you get affection from her, you must give it to her first. Do not wait for her to do it first just because that you cannot put down your ego.

3. Be lovable so as to make her want to be around you. Have a good sense of humor. Discuss things that you both have in common.

4. Ask her for a kiss as this is a sure way to get one from your girlfriend.

5. Compliment her when she does something nice. Do not just be false in your words. Be honest and she will enjoy you more. It is a normal act that is displayed when one truly cares for the other. Just be yourself, be fun to be with and enjoy her company.

Maintaining romantic gestures during relationships is definitely a great way to create and maintain the sparks between you and her.

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How to Get Women to Chase You?

To make women chasing you instead of you putting all the effort is not hard after all. There is one change you can make in your thinking and behavior that will definitely increase your success rate in attracting women.

This change is not a very difficult for you to do it, and is not something that will only work for a tall, good-looking guy who already has success with women. So what exactly is the change that you can make right away to attract women?

Women are attracted to men that they cannot control. They are not attracted to men that they can control. So in order to get women to chase you rather than you chasing them, you will need to change the way you think about attraction for women, especially in this aspect.

You need to believe that becoming a “bad boy” that women cannot control or anticipate your next move, will definitely increase your success rate in getting women as your girlfriends. I am not telling you to go out there and break women hearts, is just to let you understand that women will not be attracted to men that are too nice to them.

You must do something that's far more "subtle" than that and you'll have to learn the
techniques that go along with this mindset. Being too nice to women will position you to them as “yet another guy who likes them” kind of guy. You will not want to be seen in this manner and it will definitely jeopardize your success in attracting them.

So guys, take some time to adopt this particular mindset and start talking to women in a whole new approach. Tease them; be arrogant yet humorous at the same time. You will definitely reap the rewards if you can make this change.

How to Get the Woman That You Really Want

I believe that all men have that one girl that they really want. It could be a beautiful and gorgeous soul mate of yours that you have known since college, or it could be that hot babe at your workplace.

But the dangerous thing here is, when there is just one girl that you want, it will become a hell lot tougher for you to get her. A lot of guys shoot themselves on their feet when come to the dating game when they focus on just one girl in their lives.

This narrow focus will kill whatever attraction she might have for you. You will seem like a very needy and desperate wuss in her eyes, which will greatly jeopardize your success of getting her to be your girlfriend.

Let me share with you some strategies that you can use right away to stop killing the natural attraction that girls have in you:

Strategy #1: Do not just think that one girl is all you will meet in your life.

Yes, she may be awesome, but I am pretty sure that there are tons of other girls out there who are just as great as she is, and you WILL definitely meet them.

Just remember that there are a lot of girls out there who are amazing too. This way you will not become too needy and desperate over her.

Strategy #2: Go out there and know more girls.

If she is the only dating prospect in your life right now, it will be tough for your not to worry about it. Therefore, the solution to solve this problem is to make yourself hang out with other girls so as to increase your network of dating prospects.

When you are surrounded by other women and lead a happy social life, you are attractive to women instantly. Create a challenge for the one girl that you really want. She’s the one who has to win your affections, not the other way round.

Strategy #3: Change Your Mindset About Dating and Women

Forget about neediness and loneliness. Have a better frame of mind and look at dating and women from another perspective. You will need to have a mindset that whatever attention or care that you give her, has been EARNED by her, not because of is natural for a man to act like this.

There is a saying that if a person does not put you in his or her priority in life, you should also not prioritize them high up there in your list. This applies to dating.

How to Get Physical with a Woman

I believe this is what most men wish to find out, about how to get physical with a woman. Most men are afraid that if they really like to do more, they will be perceive by the woman as a pervert or wants to push things too fast.

I know that we men hate the efforts of being rejected after we have invested so much time and effort that made us come so far with them. Therefore what most men will usually do is to wait and see, and hope that things will “heat up” again.

Let me tell you, you will not get what you want. Do you expect a woman to come to you and take off her clothes, and tell you “Let’s do it”? I seriously do not think so. I honestly believe that most men cause their own problems and resistance when it comes to "getting physical" with a woman.

Women like anticipation, and anticipation leads to sexual arousal. Women like to think what may happen and expect it to happen. Women act like they want a man to chase them around all night, and then MAYBE do it. So if you want her to feel more turned on, and to get less "resistance", then use ANTICIPATION.

So how to you create that anticipation that women want? You can simply do it by playing hard to get. Leads her on and then be passive. Let her anticipate what your next move is. By simply confusing her, she will more likely want you to do more so that she can solve her puzzle.

By acting in this manner, you will also be different from other guys that she has met before. At least, you are not a guy who does not understand how to turn on a woman.

How to Foreplay To Spice Her Up?

I have always tell my clients and list subscribers that foreplay plays a very important role if you want to have a enjoyable sexual experience with your partner.

Women like anticipation, especially on bed. Foreplay is all about creating anticipation. Here are four activities that every guy should know. Use these and any variations that you invent and she will never know what amazing thing you will do next.

1. Massage her. Massaging will help her to relax before having sex with you. By massaging areas like her feet, shoulders, back will definitely spice up the atmosphere. You do not have to be a professional masseuse to rub her back with good massage oil. Do not use baby oil as it will be too oily and do not use a lotion as it will absorb into her skin and will not stay slippery long enough. Light a candle and warm up the oil by rubbing it between your hands. Do not try to perform a deep muscle massage.

2. Caress her from the back. Hug her from behind and do some sweet talk into her ears. Women like guys who are playful and creative. Do not rush to have sex, which will be a great turn-off to most women. While you are holding her, you can start to kiss her slowly from her neck down.

3. Undress her slowly. A lot of couples get into the rut of getting undressed and jumping into bed to start their romantic interludes. It does not matter if you have been married a day or 30 years; this time stop and kiss her while you are both standing up. Start undressing her while maintaining the kiss. It will bring back memories of dating and will be fun.

4. While both of you are on bed, take things slowly and enjoy yourselves. Treat her like you are having sex with her for the first time. Sex is meant to be enjoyed, not to be rushed through. Tickle her, and kiss her all over. Be creative and both of you will definitely enjoy a fantastic night together.

Foreplay is a very important process before sex. A good foreplay can lead to a good sex, while a sex without foreplay is just plain and boring sex.

How to Date Your Co Workers

It is very common to meet an opposite sex that you are interested at your workplace. You may be wondering how you can date her out; without making her think that you are too aggressive. I will share with you now what are the ways that you can use to approach this.

1. Get to know her more. Do not be too aggressive at the beginning if you do not get to her at all. Make her feel comfortable being with you around as a colleague first.

2. Make small jokes of her so as to break ice.

3. Whatever things that they tell you, try to remember them. Girls are impresses with guys who pay attention to what they are saying.

4. Make small talk; bring up normal things to talk about. For example, school, movies, or music.

5. Show interest in what they have interest for.

6. Do your research. Ask around to find out whether she has a boyfriend.

7. Ask her for her number. If she gives it to you, it is a good sign.

8. Once you get to know her more, ask her if she would like to hang out (on days off or before/after work).

9. If both of you have a good time while hanging out and she is available, try asking her to be your girlfriend.

10. If she needs more time, do not try to push her too much. Respect her decision and let her think about it. At the mean time, carry on with your life and do not make her think that your life is only revolving around her.

But if you get the chance to have her as your girlfriend, you must be prepared to face her at your workplace if you break up.

She Is Playing Hard To Get - So Now What?

I believe you guys out there have probably met some women who played hard to get with you before, and you do not have a single clue why they behave in those manners, am I right?

Actually, it is very normal for women to play hard to get with us, Men. By playing hard to get with us, they can know a lot of things about us. For example, how serious are we in wooing them, are we determined enough, etc. They can also create more sparks by playing hard to get with us, as they think that they will make us miss and love them more!

Therefore, we have to accept the fact that women will always play hard to get with us, no matter whether do they like us or not. So it is very important to know what are the reasons behind them playing hard to get, because sometimes when a woman plays hard to get with a guy, she is simply not interested in him, and it is advisable for him to move on.

So whenever now if you meet a woman who plays hard to get with you (you most probably will meet one), the first thing is to know why she plays it, by judging her actions and analyzing the situation. Then from there, you can determined whether if she is worth the chase.

How to be Nice to a Girl?

Some girls like it when men treat them in a very gentlemanly nice way. There are a few ways that you can do to a girl, which will make her feels appreciated and attracted to you.

1. Be sincere. Mean what you say. Do not say things that you do not actually MEAN about her. If you don't have anything nice to say do not say anything at all. Remember, honesty really is the best policy

2. Respect her as a person. For every decision that she has made, respect her decision, because she has her own rights after all. So do not expect her to always agree with you. Do also treat her friends and family members with respect too, as you will most probably score more points in this way.

3. Express an interest in meeting her friends. Girls often call their friends girlfriends. They are close and without their friends approval you don't have hers. Try using some of these steps on them as well but not as much or you may seem to be a flirt.

4. Be attentive. When she talks to you, listen. Girls like guys who provide listening ears to them. Let them pour out their feelings to you, talk less, and listen more. Do not stop her while she is speaking, just listen to her.

5. Care for her, by opening the door for her, and pulling out the chair for her in restaurants, etc.

6. Be kind, and not just to the girl you are trying to impress. A better suggestion would simply be to be a nice person. Remember, you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. Small acts of kindness make a big impression.

Girls need to feel appreciated by a guy, and they need a lot of assurance. When they feel that you are nice to her in a way which is sincere, she will look at you in a very different way. But do not overdo it, and become a “puppy” to her.

Why Do Women Like to Play Hard To Get?

Women are hard to understand, and do not even think of guessing what are they thinking about. Trust me, you will go crazy. I know it is hard to take when a woman that you are so eagerly chasing is playing hard to get with you, and you do not know why she does that.

Sometimes, the things women do when in relationships are out of this world, at least not for the men to understand. A man will think that if a woman plays hard to get with him, she is definitely interested in him, just to show that she does not want to seem too easy to get. But is it true all the times? Or is she just simply not interested?

There are just too many reasons and possibilities that why women play hard to get with men during relationships. A few of the common reasons are:

1) They do not want to be seem as easy targets.
2) They want men to treasure them more when they finally get together.
3) They are simply not interested in the relationships or the men.

So when you happen to meet a girl who plays hard to get with you in the future, try to recall what are some common reasons why she does this. Then what you can do is to play to the situation. But please do not turn into a needy wuss who begs her to be together with you, it will only turn her off.

Instead have some dignity and confidence in yourself, and prepare to walk away if you feel that nothing can be work out from the both of you. Continue to live your own life and go out and meet more people. This will make her realize that you life does not only evolves around her.

You can find out more about Why Women Play Hard To Get from my book here.