Showing posts with label seduction tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label seduction tips. Show all posts

Monday, December 17, 2007

4 Sure-Fire Tips to Seduce Women...

To seduce women successfully, men need to work on 4 things. I am going to share with you 4 tips to successfully seduce women; even you think that they are out of your league.

1. Have a positive mindset. This is the most important thing that you must work on if you really want to successfully seduce women. Before you hit the bar and start honing your seduction skill, if you do not have the belief that you can make it, you will not be able to pull it off.

2. Think less, action counts. Do not spend your time wondering whether you will be able to get the girl, or thinking of what lines and tactics you should use on her. All these without the action of really approaching her and talk, there will be no result at all. Therefore, just pick up your courage and approach her now.

3. Carry yourself well. Speak confidently and with composure. Women like men who are confident. By maintaining your composure, you show her that you are not intimidated by her or any circumstances at all.

4. Make use of body language. Body language is one of the greatest ways to create attraction. Maintain constant eye contacts and some minor physical contact will help too.

The above are just 4 simple tips that you can work on so as to improve your seduction skill. I cannot stress enough how important it is to have a positive mindset first before you approach any woman.

Try it out, before you approach any woman in the future, just tell yourself that you will succeed and she will feel attracted to you. You will be able to see the differences a positive mindset can bring to your seduction game.

Wednesday, August 1, 2007

How to Get Your Girlfriend to Kiss and Hug You More Often

Physical contact between your girlfriend and you is very important to maintain a healthy relationship. Kisses and hugs will show that both of you are still deeply in love with each other. But when one of you feels that the other half does not show romantic gestures very often, it may cause him or her to lose self-esteem and confidence in the relationship.

Therefore, let met share with you some of the ways to maintain the romantic gestures between you and your girlfriend during relationships.

1. Show her affection, when walking in the mall, hold her hand. When you greet her, give her a kiss to show her you care about her. Snuggle next to her on the couch, with your arm around her, and your fingers playing with her ear lobe, or her neck. When you give affection, you will get it.

2. Before you get affection from her, you must give it to her first. Do not wait for her to do it first just because that you cannot put down your ego.

3. Be lovable so as to make her want to be around you. Have a good sense of humor. Discuss things that you both have in common.

4. Ask her for a kiss as this is a sure way to get one from your girlfriend.

5. Compliment her when she does something nice. Do not just be false in your words. Be honest and she will enjoy you more. It is a normal act that is displayed when one truly cares for the other. Just be yourself, be fun to be with and enjoy her company.

Maintaining romantic gestures during relationships is definitely a great way to create and maintain the sparks between you and her.

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Wednesday, July 25, 2007

How to Get the Woman That You Really Want

I believe that all men have that one girl that they really want. It could be a beautiful and gorgeous soul mate of yours that you have known since college, or it could be that hot babe at your workplace.

But the dangerous thing here is, when there is just one girl that you want, it will become a hell lot tougher for you to get her. A lot of guys shoot themselves on their feet when come to the dating game when they focus on just one girl in their lives.

This narrow focus will kill whatever attraction she might have for you. You will seem like a very needy and desperate wuss in her eyes, which will greatly jeopardize your success of getting her to be your girlfriend.

Let me share with you some strategies that you can use right away to stop killing the natural attraction that girls have in you:

Strategy #1: Do not just think that one girl is all you will meet in your life.

Yes, she may be awesome, but I am pretty sure that there are tons of other girls out there who are just as great as she is, and you WILL definitely meet them.

Just remember that there are a lot of girls out there who are amazing too. This way you will not become too needy and desperate over her.

Strategy #2: Go out there and know more girls.

If she is the only dating prospect in your life right now, it will be tough for your not to worry about it. Therefore, the solution to solve this problem is to make yourself hang out with other girls so as to increase your network of dating prospects.

When you are surrounded by other women and lead a happy social life, you are attractive to women instantly. Create a challenge for the one girl that you really want. She’s the one who has to win your affections, not the other way round.

Strategy #3: Change Your Mindset About Dating and Women

Forget about neediness and loneliness. Have a better frame of mind and look at dating and women from another perspective. You will need to have a mindset that whatever attention or care that you give her, has been EARNED by her, not because of is natural for a man to act like this.

There is a saying that if a person does not put you in his or her priority in life, you should also not prioritize them high up there in your list. This applies to dating.

Sunday, July 22, 2007

How to Get Physical with a Woman

I believe this is what most men wish to find out, about how to get physical with a woman. Most men are afraid that if they really like to do more, they will be perceive by the woman as a pervert or wants to push things too fast.

I know that we men hate the efforts of being rejected after we have invested so much time and effort that made us come so far with them. Therefore what most men will usually do is to wait and see, and hope that things will “heat up” again.

Let me tell you, you will not get what you want. Do you expect a woman to come to you and take off her clothes, and tell you “Let’s do it”? I seriously do not think so. I honestly believe that most men cause their own problems and resistance when it comes to "getting physical" with a woman.

Women like anticipation, and anticipation leads to sexual arousal. Women like to think what may happen and expect it to happen. Women act like they want a man to chase them around all night, and then MAYBE do it. So if you want her to feel more turned on, and to get less "resistance", then use ANTICIPATION.

So how to you create that anticipation that women want? You can simply do it by playing hard to get. Leads her on and then be passive. Let her anticipate what your next move is. By simply confusing her, she will more likely want you to do more so that she can solve her puzzle.

By acting in this manner, you will also be different from other guys that she has met before. At least, you are not a guy who does not understand how to turn on a woman.

Wednesday, July 18, 2007

How to Foreplay To Spice Her Up?

I have always tell my clients and list subscribers that foreplay plays a very important role if you want to have a enjoyable sexual experience with your partner.

Women like anticipation, especially on bed. Foreplay is all about creating anticipation. Here are four activities that every guy should know. Use these and any variations that you invent and she will never know what amazing thing you will do next.

1. Massage her. Massaging will help her to relax before having sex with you. By massaging areas like her feet, shoulders, back will definitely spice up the atmosphere. You do not have to be a professional masseuse to rub her back with good massage oil. Do not use baby oil as it will be too oily and do not use a lotion as it will absorb into her skin and will not stay slippery long enough. Light a candle and warm up the oil by rubbing it between your hands. Do not try to perform a deep muscle massage.

2. Caress her from the back.
Hug her from behind and do some sweet talk into her ears. Women like guys who are playful and creative. Do not rush to have sex, which will be a great turn-off to most women. While you are holding her, you can start to kiss her slowly from her neck down.

3. Undress her slowly. A lot of couples get into the rut of getting undressed and jumping into bed to start their romantic interludes. It does not matter if you have been married a day or 30 years; this time stop and kiss her while you are both standing up. Start undressing her while maintaining the kiss. It will bring back memories of dating and will be fun.

4. While both of you are on bed, take things slowly and enjoy yourselves. Treat her like you are having sex with her for the first time. Sex is meant to be enjoyed, not to be rushed through. Tickle her, and kiss her all over. Be creative and both of you will definitely enjoy a fantastic night together.

Foreplay is a very important process before sex. A good foreplay can lead to a good sex, while a sex without foreplay is just plain and boring sex.

Sunday, July 15, 2007

How to Date Your Co Workers

It is very common to meet an opposite sex that you are interested at your workplace. You may be wondering how you can date her out; without making her think that you are too aggressive. I will share with you now what are the ways that you can use to approach this.

1. Get to know her more. Do not be too aggressive at the beginning if you do not get to her at all. Make her feel comfortable being with you around as a colleague first.

2. Make small jokes of her so as to break ice.

3. Whatever things that they tell you, try to remember them. Girls are impresses with guys who pay attention to what they are saying.

4. Make small talk; bring up normal things to talk about. For example, school, movies, or music.

5. Show interest in what they have interest for.

6. Do your research. Ask around to find out whether she has a boyfriend.

7. Ask her for her number. If she gives it to you, it is a good sign.

8. Once you get to know her more, ask her if she would like to hang out (on days off or before/after work).

9. If both of you have a good time while hanging out and she is available, try asking her to be your girlfriend.

10. If she needs more time, do not try to push her too much. Respect her decision and let her think about it. At the mean time, carry on with your life and do not make her think that your life is only revolving around her.

But if you get the chance to have her as your girlfriend, you must be prepared to face her at your workplace if you break up.

Friday, July 13, 2007

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Wednesday, July 11, 2007

How to Break Up with Her Using Sensitivity

I know that for some guys, asking for a breakup is a very hard thing to say out.

Breaking up is always hard to take for anyone who is in a relationship. No one likes the feeling of being dumped, but break-ups are an unavoidable part of our lives. For you guys out there, it is very important to end a relationship properly to avoid future bad relationship karma.

1. Do it in person. To initial a break-up over the phone to her is harsh. Meet up with her and explain why the relationship between you and her does not work out.

2. Pick an appropriate place. Remember, ending a relationship is a humbling experience. Don't do it in a place where the person on the receiving end is going to feel more vulnerable than necessary.

3. Choose the right time. Try not to break up with her on special occasion or festive period, as you will not want her to remember you being so insensitive when every time that day rolls around.

4. Be honest. Tell her what does not work out. Let her understand that she will need to accept the truth and move on but do it in a sensitive way.

5. Keep your emotions in check. Don't seem too happy about the breakup: you'll come off as mean-spirited. Just be kind, caring, and considerate.

6. Don't over- react. Some people don't handle rejection well. Some people yell, scream, and cry. Do not react to their meltdown. Remember, rejection is tough. You've already got the upper hand by being the dumper. Let the dumpee behave ridiculously if they choose to. And if their tantrum escalates, get the heck out of there.

If you handle yourself well during the breakup, chances are you'll avoid any hard feelings with your ex. And while that may not seem so important at the time, it's vital to your future relationship karma!

Sunday, July 8, 2007

How to be Nice to a Girl?

Some girls like it when men treat them in a very gentlemanly nice way. There are a few ways that you can do to a girl, which will make her feels appreciated and attracted to you.

1. Be sincere. Mean what you say. Do not say things that you do not actually MEAN about her. If you don't have anything nice to say do not say anything at all. Remember, honesty really is the best policy

2. Respect her as a person. For every decision that she has made, respect her decision, because she has her own rights after all. So do not expect her to always agree with you. Do also treat her friends and family members with respect too, as you will most probably score more points in this way.

3. Express an interest in meeting her friends. Girls often call their friends girlfriends. They are close and without their friends approval you don't have hers. Try using some of these steps on them as well but not as much or you may seem to be a flirt.

4. Be attentive. When she talks to you, listen. Girls like guys who provide listening ears to them. Let them pour out their feelings to you, talk less, and listen more. Do not stop her while she is speaking, just listen to her.

5. Care for her, by opening the door for her, and pulling out the chair for her in restaurants, etc.

6. Be kind, and not just to the girl you are trying to impress. A better suggestion would simply be to be a nice person. Remember, you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. Small acts of kindness make a big impression.

Girls need to feel appreciated by a guy, and they need a lot of assurance. When they feel that you are nice to her in a way which is sincere, she will look at you in a very different way. But do not overdo it, and become a “puppy” to her.

Monday, July 2, 2007

How to Be Attractive to Women for a better future

In today post, I will talk about how men can be attractive to women in the dating game.

Women are attracted to guys who are confident, humorous, cool, and sexy. But not all women are attracted to these kinds of guys. Some women like guys who treat them bad, but some will not tolerate any nonsense from guys.

I know there are a lot of techniques out there, teaching you how to be attractive to a woman. They are mostly true, but it is just that you will need to see which type of women you are targeting. Once you know what type of girl is she, you can play accordingly to your techniques and emerge victorious.

Let me just share with you some of the ways that you can use so as to attract her.

1. Be nice and sincere. There is nothing sweeter to a woman than a genuinely kind man, if you know how to use it properly.

2. Be humorous. Make fun of her and crack funny jokes to her. Women like guys who have a sense of humor, so that they will feel entertained. But when you are cracking joke, make sure that the jokes are funny, and do not ever crack racist jokes.

3. Be different from other guys. Gorgeous women tend to have a lot of typical nice guys wooing them. They have most probably met hundreds of guys who use the same old pick-up lines. You need to be different if you want to capture her attention. One of the ways is to be cocky, but at the same time funny. Make fun of her when you first meet her, and make her feel that you are not intimidated by her.

4. Be observant to her. It shows you care enough to notice, or gives you a good opener in a bar.

5. Do not be nice in way that she will think that you are timid and a pushover. You must have your own sense of pride, directions, and confidence. These traits are just the perfect baits to attract women.

Nothing beats going out there and experiences it. You can read as many tricks and techniques as you wish, but if you never practise them, you are getting nowhere. Do not afraid of rejection, it is just part and parcel of the dating game.

Friday, June 29, 2007

Why Do Women Like to Play Hard To Get?

Women are hard to understand, and do not even think of guessing what are they thinking about. Trust me, you will go crazy. I know it is hard to take when a woman that you are so eagerly chasing is playing hard to get with you, and you do not know why she does that.

Sometimes, the things women do when in relationships are out of this world, at least not for the men to understand. A man will think that if a woman plays hard to get with him, she is definitely interested in him, just to show that she does not want to seem too easy to get. But is it true all the times? Or is she just simply not interested?

There are just too many reasons and possibilities that why women play hard to get with men during relationships. A few of the common reasons are:

1) They do not want to be seem as easy targets.
2) They want men to treasure them more when they finally get together.
3) They are simply not interested in the relationships or the men.

So when you happen to meet a girl who plays hard to get with you in the future, try to recall what are some common reasons why she does this. Then what you can do is to play to the situation. But please do not turn into a needy wuss who begs her to be together with you, it will only turn her off.

Instead have some dignity and confidence in yourself, and prepare to walk away if you feel that nothing can be work out from the both of you. Continue to live your own life and go out and meet more people. This will make her realize that you life does not only evolves around her.

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Sunday, June 24, 2007

Getting a Girl to Like You When She Has No Interest in Relationships

I bet that many guys like you have met a girl before, who told you that she is not ready for a relationship. There are some reasons why girls tell you this. One of the reasons is that she was hurt before in past relationships, and thus does not want to get into a relationship at this moment.

Another reason is that she is just not interested in you, and is giving an excuse to reject you. Think about it. If you were the girl's favorite male celebrity, wouldn't she take a chance on the relationship? You want to find a girl who will like you enough to take a chance on you. In this article, I will show you some of the best approaches when you meet a girl like those mentioned above.

1. Make known to her that you do not want the relationship either. Play hard to get with her. The easiest way to make a person want something more is by making it impossible to obtain. So when she says she doesn't date, don't dwell on this but move on and say "who cares."

2. If she tells you she is not interested to get into a relationship at the moment after you have told her you like her, forget it. Leave her alone. If she changes her mind, she will come back to you and show that she likes you.

3. You can start building strong friendship with the girl. Strong friendship is a good foundation to strong relationship. If you have similar interests, talk about those. Talk about her interests, activities, etc., but keep it casual at first.

4. Ask her out for dates first, instead of telling her you like her. This will reduce the instances of this kind of response, as well as avoid you losing the respect of the girl.

5. Ask yourself why do you like her? Is it just because of her look? Or you are just serious about her? An attractive girl has probably had lots of guys approach her just for her looks. Having that kind of constant, shallow attention can leave a person feeling isolated, lonely, and misunderstood. It can also leave her doubting her own self-worth if that's the only reason she's approached. Step back a bit and reevaluate what you're looking for. It's unkind to go out with someone just to have a pretty girl on your arm.

Do not put your time on hold and spend all your time on a girl who tells you that she is not interested to get into a relationship at the moment. Go out and talk to other girls, and live your life.

Wednesday, June 20, 2007

Does Talking Dirty in the Bedroom Helps to Spice Her Up?

All right, in this post, I am going to share with you whether talking dirty helps in a better relationship and a better sex life.

Talking dirty to her in bed is definitely a very good way to spice up the night. A little pillow talk in the bedroom will make the both of you excited about what will be coming after that.

There are people saying that talking dirty is hard, but that is not true at all. I know that sometimes you will be lost of words or phrases to say to her, but this does not means that you can spice her up in other ways. The most important thing to note while talking dirty is to stayed relaxed, and be as natural as possible. Once you get started, talking dirt is easy.

A simple sentence like “Oh baby, do you like it when I touch you there?” will fire her up. Compliment her body and imagine you are seeing her body for the very first time. Take your time to explore every part of her body, and communicate to her at the same time.

You can even take things one step further by acting like a porn star. Once you are warmed up and feeling confident, use sentence or phrases that you remember from those movies. Both of you can even do cross-dressing to satisfy each other fantasies.

Talking dirty is not only confined to the bedroom, try it when you are outside. There are a few places that are absolutely suitable for some dirty talks, for example, in the pub, kitchen, living room, staircase, car, park, or elevator.

Whisper in your her ear and tell her what you plan on doing to her back home while both of you are still out in a pub or party. Believe me; once you get started, you will be turning her on, while at the same time firing yourself up as well and you may not be able to stop at all.

 
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