How to start a conversation with a girl easily?Do you think you can do it? Actually to start a conversation with a girl easily, it is not a rocket science thing; you just need to know what attracts her interests.
When you what are the topics that can arouse her interests, you will be able to get them do most of the talking while you will achieve a higher status at the same time. To get her to talk, you will need to use “opening lines” rather than “pick-up lines”. Let me just share with you some how you can make use of “opening lines” to start a conversation with a girl easily:
1. Remember that women love to talk. By knowing this, you should start a conversation by asking her opinions about something. For example, if you are approaching a girl in a supermarket, you can ask her to give some feedbacks about a particular product that she has in her basket so that you can decide whether to buy it.
2. Follow up from their comments or feedbacks. By making them to talk first, you will be able to use what she says to come out with new topics. You can either ask her another questions, or just share whatever experience that you have regarding about what she have said.
By not using pick-ups lines which are mostly sleazy and lame, you will sound like you are trying to pick her up. Do remember to always use open-ended question, do not use “opening lines” whereby she can just answer with a simple “Yes” or “No”.
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Friday, February 8, 2008
How To Start A Conversation With A Girl Easily?
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Wednesday, October 24, 2007
Why Is Body Language So Important in Dating?
Body language does really play a very important role when you are dating women, because majority of human communication is non-verbal. Your body language reveals a lot about your personality, and what exactly you are communicating to women.
By judging a person body language, you will have a glimpse of an idea whether he or she has just broken up with their loves one, or have just gotten into a relationship that he or she wants.
Therefore when it comes to dating, men should pay a lot of attention of what they are communicating to women non-verbally, that is through their body language. Communication non-verbally can happen very subtlety, and that is why you must really know what body language consists of so that you will not give out the wrong body language signal:
1. Your face. Relax your facial muscles and never ever tense your jaw.
2. Your voice. Speak in a calm, slow and confident manner. Do not strain your voice, or try to put up some funny accent.
3. The placement of your body. Try to take up more space by spreading your legs and arms.
4. Your shoulders. Do not raise your shoulders unnecessarily as it will imply to the woman that you are a very nervous person. Keep them relax at all times.
5. Your overall body movement. Do not make it seems that you are rushing for time. Move through the world doing what you want, and assume that others will follow.
If your body language does not match what you say, you will not succeed with women. If you are excited about something that a woman says, show it with the right body language. If you show it by slumping over and folding your arms, then you will come across very fake.
With the right body language and mindset, it means you will be comfortable and enjoying yourself... with the woman, and succeed in the dating game...
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Wednesday, September 19, 2007
Mastering The Art of Seduction With My Tips
One of the most important thing that you must do first if you want to master the art of seduction, is to work on yourself first. What do I mean by work on yourself? You need to have a positive and strong mindset to take on any rejections that you will be facing...
All right, let me just break down the tips for you so that you can get a glimpse of what is needed to mastering the art of seduction:
1. Have a positive mindset. A positive man shows confidence, and it is one of the best ways to attract women. With a positive mindset, you will also not allow any negative thoughts from stopping you to achieve consistent success with women. Break your mental barrier now!
2. Always be willing to learn. Learn all the skills and techniques that you can get your hands on. Research on the internet for tips on seduction, or invest in seduction books to give you more ideas on the art of seduction.
3. Treat rejections lightly. In the art of seduction, one of the most important skills that you need to have is to always overcome rejections. Rejections will happen, and it is no big deal about it. Just move on and approach other women.
4. Do your homework. You will need to have a plan before you start to seduce any women. If you do not plan, you are bound to fail.
5. Be persistent and consistent. To master the art of seduction, you will need to always try and practice your seduction techniques and skills. Pubs, shopping centres, and library are just couples of places which are good for training.
Believe in yourself that you can seduce any woman that you want, if you are willing to learn how to do it. Your success with women is in your hands.
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Wednesday, July 18, 2007
How to Foreplay To Spice Her Up?
I have always tell my clients and list subscribers that foreplay plays a very important role if you want to have a enjoyable sexual experience with your partner.
Women like anticipation, especially on bed. Foreplay is all about creating anticipation. Here are four activities that every guy should know. Use these and any variations that you invent and she will never know what amazing thing you will do next.
1. Massage her. Massaging will help her to relax before having sex with you. By massaging areas like her feet, shoulders, back will definitely spice up the atmosphere. You do not have to be a professional masseuse to rub her back with good massage oil. Do not use baby oil as it will be too oily and do not use a lotion as it will absorb into her skin and will not stay slippery long enough. Light a candle and warm up the oil by rubbing it between your hands. Do not try to perform a deep muscle massage.
2. Caress her from the back. Hug her from behind and do some sweet talk into her ears. Women like guys who are playful and creative. Do not rush to have sex, which will be a great turn-off to most women. While you are holding her, you can start to kiss her slowly from her neck down.
3. Undress her slowly. A lot of couples get into the rut of getting undressed and jumping into bed to start their romantic interludes. It does not matter if you have been married a day or 30 years; this time stop and kiss her while you are both standing up. Start undressing her while maintaining the kiss. It will bring back memories of dating and will be fun.
4. While both of you are on bed, take things slowly and enjoy yourselves. Treat her like you are having sex with her for the first time. Sex is meant to be enjoyed, not to be rushed through. Tickle her, and kiss her all over. Be creative and both of you will definitely enjoy a fantastic night together.
Foreplay is a very important process before sex. A good foreplay can lead to a good sex, while a sex without foreplay is just plain and boring sex.
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Wednesday, July 11, 2007
How to Break Up with Her Using Sensitivity
I know that for some guys, asking for a breakup is a very hard thing to say out.
Breaking up is always hard to take for anyone who is in a relationship. No one likes the feeling of being dumped, but break-ups are an unavoidable part of our lives. For you guys out there, it is very important to end a relationship properly to avoid future bad relationship karma.
1. Do it in person. To initial a break-up over the phone to her is harsh. Meet up with her and explain why the relationship between you and her does not work out.
2. Pick an appropriate place. Remember, ending a relationship is a humbling experience. Don't do it in a place where the person on the receiving end is going to feel more vulnerable than necessary.
3. Choose the right time. Try not to break up with her on special occasion or festive period, as you will not want her to remember you being so insensitive when every time that day rolls around.
4. Be honest. Tell her what does not work out. Let her understand that she will need to accept the truth and move on but do it in a sensitive way.
5. Keep your emotions in check. Don't seem too happy about the breakup: you'll come off as mean-spirited. Just be kind, caring, and considerate.
6. Don't over- react. Some people don't handle rejection well. Some people yell, scream, and cry. Do not react to their meltdown. Remember, rejection is tough. You've already got the upper hand by being the dumper. Let the dumpee behave ridiculously if they choose to. And if their tantrum escalates, get the heck out of there.
If you handle yourself well during the breakup, chances are you'll avoid any hard feelings with your ex. And while that may not seem so important at the time, it's vital to your future relationship karma!
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Sunday, July 8, 2007
How to be Nice to a Girl?
Some girls like it when men treat them in a very gentlemanly nice way. There are a few ways that you can do to a girl, which will make her feels appreciated and attracted to you.
1. Be sincere. Mean what you say. Do not say things that you do not actually MEAN about her. If you don't have anything nice to say do not say anything at all. Remember, honesty really is the best policy
2. Respect her as a person. For every decision that she has made, respect her decision, because she has her own rights after all. So do not expect her to always agree with you. Do also treat her friends and family members with respect too, as you will most probably score more points in this way.
3. Express an interest in meeting her friends. Girls often call their friends girlfriends. They are close and without their friends approval you don't have hers. Try using some of these steps on them as well but not as much or you may seem to be a flirt.
4. Be attentive. When she talks to you, listen. Girls like guys who provide listening ears to them. Let them pour out their feelings to you, talk less, and listen more. Do not stop her while she is speaking, just listen to her.
5. Care for her, by opening the door for her, and pulling out the chair for her in restaurants, etc.
6. Be kind, and not just to the girl you are trying to impress. A better suggestion would simply be to be a nice person. Remember, you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. Small acts of kindness make a big impression.
Girls need to feel appreciated by a guy, and they need a lot of assurance. When they feel that you are nice to her in a way which is sincere, she will look at you in a very different way. But do not overdo it, and become a “puppy” to her.
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Monday, July 2, 2007
How to Be Attractive to Women for a better future
In today post, I will talk about how men can be attractive to women in the dating game.
Women are attracted to guys who are confident, humorous, cool, and sexy. But not all women are attracted to these kinds of guys. Some women like guys who treat them bad, but some will not tolerate any nonsense from guys.
I know there are a lot of techniques out there, teaching you how to be attractive to a woman. They are mostly true, but it is just that you will need to see which type of women you are targeting. Once you know what type of girl is she, you can play accordingly to your techniques and emerge victorious.
Let me just share with you some of the ways that you can use so as to attract her.
1. Be nice and sincere. There is nothing sweeter to a woman than a genuinely kind man, if you know how to use it properly.
2. Be humorous. Make fun of her and crack funny jokes to her. Women like guys who have a sense of humor, so that they will feel entertained. But when you are cracking joke, make sure that the jokes are funny, and do not ever crack racist jokes.
3. Be different from other guys. Gorgeous women tend to have a lot of typical nice guys wooing them. They have most probably met hundreds of guys who use the same old pick-up lines. You need to be different if you want to capture her attention. One of the ways is to be cocky, but at the same time funny. Make fun of her when you first meet her, and make her feel that you are not intimidated by her.
4. Be observant to her. It shows you care enough to notice, or gives you a good opener in a bar.
5. Do not be nice in way that she will think that you are timid and a pushover. You must have your own sense of pride, directions, and confidence. These traits are just the perfect baits to attract women.
Nothing beats going out there and experiences it. You can read as many tricks and techniques as you wish, but if you never practise them, you are getting nowhere. Do not afraid of rejection, it is just part and parcel of the dating game.
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Friday, June 29, 2007
Why Do Women Like to Play Hard To Get?
Women are hard to understand, and do not even think of guessing what are they thinking about. Trust me, you will go crazy. I know it is hard to take when a woman that you are so eagerly chasing is playing hard to get with you, and you do not know why she does that.
Sometimes, the things women do when in relationships are out of this world, at least not for the men to understand. A man will think that if a woman plays hard to get with him, she is definitely interested in him, just to show that she does not want to seem too easy to get. But is it true all the times? Or is she just simply not interested?
There are just too many reasons and possibilities that why women play hard to get with men during relationships. A few of the common reasons are:
1) They do not want to be seem as easy targets.
2) They want men to treasure them more when they finally get together.
3) They are simply not interested in the relationships or the men.
So when you happen to meet a girl who plays hard to get with you in the future, try to recall what are some common reasons why she does this. Then what you can do is to play to the situation. But please do not turn into a needy wuss who begs her to be together with you, it will only turn her off.
Instead have some dignity and confidence in yourself, and prepare to walk away if you feel that nothing can be work out from the both of you. Continue to live your own life and go out and meet more people. This will make her realize that you life does not only evolves around her.
You can find out more about Why Women Play Hard To Get from my book here.
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Tuesday, June 26, 2007
Why is The Tactic of Playing Hard To Get So Commonly Used By Women?
Women are hard to understand, and do not even think of guessing what are they thinking about, you will go crazy, trust me. I know it is hard to take when a woman that you are so eagerly chasing is playing hard to get with you, and you do not know why she does that.
Sometimes, the things women do when in relationships are out of this world, at least not for the men to understand. A man will think that if a woman plays hard to get with him, she is definitely interested in him, just to show that she does not want to seem too easy to get. But is it true all the times? Or is she just simply not interested?
There are just too many reasons and possibilities that why women play hard to get with men during relationships. A few of the common reasons are: 1) They do not want to be seem as easy targets. 2) They want men to treasure them more when they finally succeed. 3) They are simply not interested in the relationships or the men.
Anyway, the best is not to guess them yourselves. You can find out more about the reasons from my book here.
Talk to you soon..
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Sunday, June 24, 2007
Getting a Girl to Like You When She Has No Interest in Relationships
I bet that many guys like you have met a girl before, who told you that she is not ready for a relationship. There are some reasons why girls tell you this. One of the reasons is that she was hurt before in past relationships, and thus does not want to get into a relationship at this moment.
Another reason is that she is just not interested in you, and is giving an excuse to reject you. Think about it. If you were the girl's favorite male celebrity, wouldn't she take a chance on the relationship? You want to find a girl who will like you enough to take a chance on you. In this article, I will show you some of the best approaches when you meet a girl like those mentioned above.
1. Make known to her that you do not want the relationship either. Play hard to get with her. The easiest way to make a person want something more is by making it impossible to obtain. So when she says she doesn't date, don't dwell on this but move on and say "who cares."
2. If she tells you she is not interested to get into a relationship at the moment after you have told her you like her, forget it. Leave her alone. If she changes her mind, she will come back to you and show that she likes you.
3. You can start building strong friendship with the girl. Strong friendship is a good foundation to strong relationship. If you have similar interests, talk about those. Talk about her interests, activities, etc., but keep it casual at first.
4. Ask her out for dates first, instead of telling her you like her. This will reduce the instances of this kind of response, as well as avoid you losing the respect of the girl.
5. Ask yourself why do you like her? Is it just because of her look? Or you are just serious about her? An attractive girl has probably had lots of guys approach her just for her looks. Having that kind of constant, shallow attention can leave a person feeling isolated, lonely, and misunderstood. It can also leave her doubting her own self-worth if that's the only reason she's approached. Step back a bit and reevaluate what you're looking for. It's unkind to go out with someone just to have a pretty girl on your arm.
Do not put your time on hold and spend all your time on a girl who tells you that she is not interested to get into a relationship at the moment. Go out and talk to other girls, and live your life.
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Wednesday, June 20, 2007
Does Talking Dirty in the Bedroom Helps to Spice Her Up?
All right, in this post, I am going to share with you whether talking dirty helps in a better relationship and a better sex life.
Talking dirty to her in bed is definitely a very good way to spice up the night. A little pillow talk in the bedroom will make the both of you excited about what will be coming after that.
There are people saying that talking dirty is hard, but that is not true at all. I know that sometimes you will be lost of words or phrases to say to her, but this does not means that you can spice her up in other ways. The most important thing to note while talking dirty is to stayed relaxed, and be as natural as possible. Once you get started, talking dirt is easy.
A simple sentence like “Oh baby, do you like it when I touch you there?” will fire her up. Compliment her body and imagine you are seeing her body for the very first time. Take your time to explore every part of her body, and communicate to her at the same time.
You can even take things one step further by acting like a porn star. Once you are warmed up and feeling confident, use sentence or phrases that you remember from those movies. Both of you can even do cross-dressing to satisfy each other fantasies.
Talking dirty is not only confined to the bedroom, try it when you are outside. There are a few places that are absolutely suitable for some dirty talks, for example, in the pub, kitchen, living room, staircase, car, park, or elevator.
Whisper in your her ear and tell her what you plan on doing to her back home while both of you are still out in a pub or party. Believe me; once you get started, you will be turning her on, while at the same time firing yourself up as well and you may not be able to stop at all.
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Sunday, June 17, 2007
Does Playing Hard To Get Work On Women?
I believe that you have probably met women who like to play hard to get with you, and most of them are probably those gorgeous chicks out there. Do you ever wonder what will happen if you turn the table around and play hard to get with them instead? Do you think they will feel attracted to you?
There are many discussions on whether by applying the “playing hard to get” tactic on women, will you be successful in getting those women that you want? Let me tell you the answer is a definite “Yes”, you just have to play it right.
When you play hard to get with a woman, you are showing to her that you are not intimidated by her, and she will probably feel it too. She will not view you as those typical guys out there, where the first sentence out from their mouth is to praise women that they have met.
Gorgeous women probably have tons of bees around them, and will be very bored to sweet talks. They will expect guys to love them at first sights, and going all out to please them in order to just get their numbers or second dates. But if you really want to be successful with them, you do exactly the OPPOSITE!
When you play hard to get with her in a cocky and humorous way, you will be completely different from those who she had met before. She will be attracted to you, and will want to find out more about you. She will also think that you have the confidence and this trait is definitely a killer to women when it comes to relationships.
Make her anticipate what will happen next, by doing the direct opposite of what other guys do. Women love anticipation, and you can simply do it by confusing them. Throw her the bait, and before she wants to bite it, pull back.
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Thursday, June 14, 2007
Paris Hilton Tells Women To Play Hard To Get!!
I was browsing the web, and I came across this very interesting post. Paris Hilton, the Hotel heiress, has warned her fellow women to play hard to get with men, and not to lock lips with them easily!
The main reason she feels that women should play hard to get is because by playing hard to get, it will not make women seems easy. At the same time, it can also create a more lasting romance.
She advised: "Don't let a man kiss you for at least a week.
"And try to hold him off for a month. Playing hard to get is very important so that men don't think you're easy."
So guys, be prepared. The game is on!
You can see more about the post by Paris Hilton by clicking Here!
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