Showing posts with label dating tips for men. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dating tips for men. Show all posts

Thursday, December 20, 2007

4 Tips To Date A Gorgeous Woman

Many guys are lack confidence when it comes to dating gorgeous women. They think that so called "gorgeous women" are definitely harder to date when compared to other "normal" women. To me, they are all women. The same old dating rules still apply.

To successfully date a gorgeous woman, you need to have the right knowledge and techniques to know how to do it. Let me share with you 4 tips that you can use in your dating game:

1. Understand her. A gorgeous woman does not lack of suitors. She has most probably seen so many guys, that she thinks that no man seems special to her. Therefore, to increase your chance of success, you will need to take different actions to produce different results. You need to do what other guys are not doing.

2. Have self-belief. You must believe in yourself first before we talk about dating women. Even if you are short or broke, you CAN STILL attract gorgeous women. Are you with me? Having the right mindset first is very important when it comes to dating. If you do not believe in yourself that you can attract her and go to approach a woman, you have already lost half the battle even before you open your mouth to talk.

3. Know how to strike out a conversation with stranger. You must be confident to approach any woman and starts a conversation with her. If you lack courage, you are not going to attract anyone. When starting a conversation with a woman, do not ask her "Yes" or "No" question, as you are just giving her a chance to reject you. Instead of asking her question like "Do you like to do sports", try asking her "You seem to me like a very sporty woman. Why do you love sports so much?" Get it?

4. Create attraction. To successfully date a woman, you need to create attraction first. Attraction can be created by the way you speak to her, the way you carry yourself, the actions that you use while talking and the charisma in you. To make a gorgeous woman falls for you, you MUST create attraction. If you are able to speak well and make her enjoy your company, you have already won half the battle.

One thing to note is that many men feel intimidated by beautiful women. If you want to succeed in dating them, you MUST NOT feel intimidated. Take control of the situation and distinguished yourself from most other guys out there. The key is to be DIFFERENT.

You can date the most gorgeous woman not even in your wildest dream, as long as you know how to approach her and create attraction...

Sunday, November 25, 2007

Start A Conversation With Any Girl With These 4 Simple Tips

Always remember one thing... if you want to start a successful conversation with a girl, DO NOT use pick up lines... she will find it very stupid and unoriginal.

Girls expect something more clever from you, if she is to agree to give you her phone number or go out on a date with you. They want something more original from you. Therefore, if you still wish to stand a chance in asking her out for future dates, approach her in a more natural and real manner.

Let us now discuss 4 simple tips that you can use to start a conversation with any girl:

1. Be observant of the surroundings. For example, pay attention on what she wears and hold, and study the surroundings of the place. This will give you more ideas on what to talk about later on when you approach her.

2. Pick up your courage and just do it. Do not procrastinate and consider, as this will eventually cause you to either miss the opportunity or psych yourself out. Therefore the key here is to act fast, pick up your courage and go. Do not be afraid of rejection.

3. Do not ask her a "Yes" or "No" question. Let say that you ask her a question as followed: "Do you love to play sports?" You are basically giving her a chance to give you a one-word answer "NO!". Conversation ends. Period. Instead of asking her questions like this, ask her something like "You look very sporty, what makes you like doing sports so much?". Do you see the difference here? The second example will enable the both of you to lead the conversation further.

4. Adopt a confident mindset. If you are not confident about yourself and are thinking of all sorts of negative thoughts even before you approach her, you are doom for rejection... Think positively, and trust yourself more.

To start a conversation with a girl is NOT as hard as you imagine. As long as you don't screw things up, you will be able to make the conversation flows smoothly.

Before you go... Do Find Out How To Approach Any Woman, Anywhere And Know Exactly What To Say To Get Her To Give You Her Number And Go On A Date With You...

Sunday, November 18, 2007

5 Hot Tips On How to Be Irresistible to Women

At some point of our lives as men, we will be thinking about how we can be irresistible to women. But most of the times, we do not want to seek for the answers as our men egos emerge and kill off any chances for us to triumph in the dating game.

If you have just 5 minutes to spare, I am going to share with you 5 hot tips that you can make yourself irresistible to women:

Hot Tip #1: Hang out with beautiful chicks. Women love competition, and will see a guy with lots of women around him as an attractive man. It also shows that you are not a needy person who always needs to depend on one woman.

Hot Tip #2: Have eye contact. By looking into her eyes while you are out with her, it shows that you are a very confident man. She will also get the hint that you are interested in her and women just love it when men look into their eyes.

Hot Tip #3: Bad boy. Like it or not, the bad boy still rules. Most women will fall victims to bad boys as they feel that being around with bad boys are very exciting and believe that one day they can change them for good.

Hot Tip #4: Provide a listening ear. Women always want men to listen to them when they have problems. By just sitting down and listen to her whining instead of providing solutions to her, you are doing her a very big favor.

Hot Tip #5: Find out what are her interests. Women love to talk, therefore you must know how to get her to talk about what she is crazy about. Make her feel that the both of can really get along very well.

Wait! Before you go out there and apply the tips on the first woman that you are going to meet, find out what exactly to say to her so that you can get her to give you her phone number for sure…

Wednesday, October 31, 2007

4 Tips On Overcoming Shyness On Your First Date With Your Girl

If you want to stand a chance to establish a good impression in the eyes of the girl that you are dating, you will need to successfully overcome shyness on your first date.

You will not want to think that you are just a small timid boy, as this will greatly destroy any of your chance to successfully make her your girlfriend. Therefore, overcoming shyness should be your top priority before you go on your date with her.

Usually the fear that you feel when shyness hits you is usually much worse than what you will expect in the reality. Shyness is not real at all, and there is nothing that you should be afraid of. Why are you afraid to meet a girl? It is nothing near life and death...

To overcome shyness on your first date, you will need to confront your fear directly:

1. Dress up yourself. When you feel that you look good before a date, you will feel more confident about yourself. You will tend to talk more confidently and show that you are in control.

2. Choose to eliminate any negative thoughts. For once, tell yourself that you will only think of the positives. Throw all negatives thoughts, fears, and rejections out of the window. Approach your first date with absolute confidence and optimism.

3. Plan for your very first date. Before the first date, make sure that you do the necessary preparation. Find out as much as possible about what she likes, what are her hobbies, what is her lifestyle, etc. With all these information, you will be able to come out with topics to talk about during the date so as to eliminate any awkwardness of silence.

4. Give yourself more respect. You will need to love and respect yourself more. There is nothing wrong about feeling shy in dating, and it does not mean that you are inferior in anyway. Combat your fear of shyness and overcome it.

By overcoming your shyness on your first date, she will see you as a man who is confident, composed, and able to take the lead. All these elements will create the attraction that is necessary for her to fall for you.

You can get more tips and resources on how you can overcome your shyness from the website below:

Click Here --> www.whywomenplayhardtoget.com/recommendation/Guy-Gets-Girl.html

Sunday, October 28, 2007

5 Common Mistakes Men Make In Dating

When approaching women, men need to bear a few points in mind so as not to make the common mistakes that other guys tend to make. So let us just discuss the top 5 common mistakes men make when approaching a woman:

1. Approaching without a plan. If you never plan, you are planning to fail. Although you can always improvise on the spot, but by having a plan, it will always increase your chances of coming across as a person she might consider dating.

2. Lie to women. When a man does not give enough respect and credit to a woman, he is going to fail. Most men think that they can fool a woman into giving them their number. Listen, women know that you are trying to pick them up, so do not beat around the bush. Be direct and let them know exactly what you want.

3. Forgetting about her comfort zone. It is important for you to realize that most women will be on their guard when you first approach them. This is normal, and therefore it is extremely important for you to come across as a harmless guy. Being a little humorous always help.

4. Acting like a pervert. Do not just stare at her boobs when you just got to meet a woman, it will only bring across to her that you are a pervert. Instead, lock your eyes into hers while talking to her, it shows that you respect her and are interested to know her more.

5. Do not be an irresponsible man. In reality, men are very bad to women. There is always a heavy price to pay for breaking a heart. When you are faithful to a woman, you will reap the rewards in the long run.

Hope that you do not make these common mistakes that most men make. By bearing these 5 points in mind, you will be able to increase your likelihood of succeeding in getting women to be in relationships with you.

Wednesday, October 3, 2007

Why Women Play Hard To Get – Part 2

If you are able to get something very easily, do you think you will treasure it more than something that you have spent so much effort and time that you finally get it?

When you were a kid, did you really cherish the things that you could easily get from your daddy? Or would you cherish something that you had spent time to strive for?

In relationship, this theory applies... Women want guys to cherish them more... They do not want to be seen as "easy targets".

Just imagine that you are so good that all women always say "Yes" to you. But one day, you met a girl who is so confident about herself and reject you straight in your face...

Do you feel that it’s a challenge and therefore raises your adrenalin of wanting this special lady 10 TIMES more badly than anyone else?

If she just sleeps with you after one night, and returns all your calls and texts every time, you will lose the interest in her as you know that the hunt is over.

Sometimes, a woman just wants to make you more aware of her emotional side. You have to "WORK" more for her affections as it is human nature to cherish something that you have worked for than just something you can get off the shelf.

Always remember that women are considered the most emotional creatures in this world! So satisfy their craving for emotional security.

She might also not want to let you have the feeling of taking her for granted if she says yes to you too early in the courtship. Let me illustrate why this is so.
From a simple survey that I have conducted between 10 guys, 8 of them said that they will not cherish their girlfriends if they are too easy to get.

Now do you know why she feels insecure if she agrees to be your girlfriend too early in the courtship?

To be continued…

This is an excerpt of my book "29 Reasons Why Women Play Hard To Get". You can find out more about this book from the link below:

www.whywomenplayhardtoget.com

Wednesday, September 5, 2007

How to Make A Woman Loves You More Than You Love Her?

A lot of guys think that by just showering flowers and expensive gifts, taking her out for an expensive dinner will make a woman loves him. Now let me make this very clear. The BEST way to get a woman to fall in love has NOTHING to with buying her fancy gifts.

If you just got to know a woman, and immediately do nice things for her, like showering her with expensive gifts and flowers, you are showing that you are paying for her attention. I am not saying not to treat women nice. But what matters is the TIMING, and all these gifts and dinners do not form the main reasons to make a woman loves you more than you love her.

So what exactly is the thing that men should have or do, so that he will stand a higher chance to get a woman to love him? It is simple. Create ATTRACTION. Before you can even think about love and romance, you have to make her attracted to you. If you do not build attraction, then you can forget about getting her to fall in love.

Buying gifts and taking her to fancy dinner cannot trigger attraction. What you will need to do is to demonstrate all the classic signs which women find extremely attractive, for examples:

1. Have self-confidence.
Women like men who are confident with themselves and what they do.

2. Be humorous, but with a touch of arrogance. This will show that you are intimidated by her presence, and with this, you will clearly differentiate yourself from other guys who try to date her.

3. Have your own exciting life. Do not show that your life just only revolves around her. Go out there and meet new women, and enjoy your life. Life is too short to stay still.

4. Be strong.
I am not referring to physically, but mentally. You will need to demonstrate strength in you, and have your own directions.

Remember, if you want to know how to make a woman love you, simply focus on getting her attracted to you. You will be surprised with the results.

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Why You Should Not Be Obsessed Over One Woman

Are you overly obsessed over one woman in your life? Do you feel that you cannot find someone better that the woman that you are obsessed over? Then you have definitely catch the deadly dating obsession disease...

I am pretty sure that mostly every guy will be guilty of this, which is to be obsessed over one particular woman, be it your friend, or a woman from your past relationship. A piece of dating advice from me is, being obsessed over one woman is not the same as being faithful to one woman.

When we talk about faithfulness, it is when you and a woman is in a relationship, and you show commitment and trust in this relationship by not fooling around. But being obsessed over one woman is when a man desires this one woman so much that they avoid any attempt to even date other women. This is not a healthy situation or attitude to have.

It is very common for guys to stuck with a certain girl, who no matter what you do; she just will not reciprocate the feeling that you have for her. In this case, my piece of dating advice to you is to move out of this situation as fast as you can! Stop obsessing over her. Rather than waiting on her to "come around," go out and live an active, full life with a variety of women in it.

I am pretty sure that if you make yourself "trapped" in this situation, it will cost you a lot of other things. You will be going down a "death relationship spiral", and missing out other opportunities to know more women out there. It can also greatly crush your confidence and self-esteem, which will make any future dates for you harder.

Therefore, I sincerely advise any guys who are obsessed over one woman to get a life! Get out of this "death relationship spiral". You can meet the girl that is truly yours out there, if you just start to know more women. Do not confuse between staying faithful and over obsession when come to dating women.

Sunday, August 12, 2007

What Are The 5 Common Mistakes That Men Make In Dating?

In this post, I am going to share with you what are some of the most common mistakes that men make during dating, that destroy their chances of getting women...

When approaching women, men will need to bear some points in mind so as not to make the same mistakes like other guys make. Here are the top 5 common mistakes men make when approaching a woman:

1. Approaching without a plan.
If you never plan, you are planning to fail. Although you can always improvise on the spot, but by having a plan, it will always increase your chances of coming across as a person she might consider dating.

2. Lie to women. When a man does not give enough respect and credit to a woman, he is going to fail. Most men think that they can fool a woman into giving them their number. Listen, women know that you are trying to pick them up, so do not beat around the bush. Be direct and let them know exactly what you want.

3. Forgetting about her comfort zone. It is important for you to realize that most women will be on their guard when you first approach them. This is normal, and therefore it is extremely important for you to come across as a harmless guy. Being a little humorous always help.

4. Acting like a pervert.
Do not just stare at her boobs when you just got to meet a woman, it will only bring across to her that you are a pervert. Instead, lock your eyes into hers while talking to her, it shows that you respect her and are interested to know her more.

5. Do not act like an irresponsible man. In reality, men are very bad to women. There is always a heavy price to pay for breaking a heart. When you are faithful to a woman, you will reap the rewards in the long run.

Hope that you do not make these common mistakes that most men make.

Sunday, August 5, 2007

How to Beat Other Men in The Dating Game....

Dating is a very competitive game, it is either you get the girl that you love, or some other guys get the girl. A lot of self-confidence and motivation are needed to survive in this game.

In the dating game, you will have a lot of competitors, some are tough, some are just weak. The point here is, if you want to succeed in dating, you should not allow yourself to fall into the weak category.

But in reality, it is very easy to fall into the weak category, especially for men who just broke off from their long term relationship....

When you have just ended a long term relationship, the period after that is a difficult one. Most of the guys will be wondering what will happen? Will they ever get a new special woman in their life? I think it's easy for men to become so comfortable and emotionally dependent in a relationship that they experience a lot of FEAR when ending that relationship.

Getting back to the “dating game” is not as hard as what you guys think. If you know how to go out anytime to meet women, you should not be afraid at all, because those set of skills are still deeply rooted in your brain.

When you know how to go out anytime and meet women, you will have the following benefits:

1) When you know that you can meet women anytime you want, it makes you stop acting so NEEDY and CLINGY in a relationship. Most needy and clingy behaviors are rooted in the FEAR that you will never be able to find another woman.

2) When it comes to ending a relationship, this skill makes things MUCH easier. Too many of you guys stay in relationships that are bad for you, and are afraid to END a relationship because of that deeply-rooted insecurity that comes from not knowing how to walk out the door anytime, anywhere and meet women.

When comes to dealing with competition from other guys when you are out of the "dating game" for a long time, there are actually 2 reasons to find the root of the problem.

1) INSECURITY. When you are insecure and do not trust yourself, you will always fear that someone else CAN snatch away your girlfriend/date. This is a bad thing because it then clouds your thinking, and creates an illusion that the woman you're with is BETTER than she is, and that you're WORSE than you are.

2) Jealousy. Jealousy is useless, and it can leads to stupid emotion like anger and anger may leads to violence. Women hate violence. If you resort to violence, I can bet that she will leave you immediately.

Therefore, you will need to feel confident about yourself first, so that it will not lead to jealousy.

Women are attracted to guys who are confident, and if she wants to leave, you can’t stop her anyway. And if she really leaves, just look for a new woman! Why fear?

 
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